Muara Kasih Single Mother

Muara Kasih Single Mother
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It does not feel like 35 days have passed, and now in the Abhayagiri, Sleman, Jogjakarta area. This place was chosen directly by Pandu because he wanted a wedding in a hilly area with Mount Merapi as his background.


In the outdoor area has been decorated with a variety of white roses that symbolize the purity of love, do not forget the yellow janur made penjor also welcomes invited guests once entering the place commonly functioned as this hotel.


Meanwhile, the family from Solo has also come and also seemed to sit in a place that has been provided for the besan family. No doubt, some invited guests were so stunned by the wedding party that was taking place that afternoon. It looks, everything is so very beautiful from the decoration, to the preparation of tables and chairs. Make no mistake, Pandu as an interior designer until it comes down directly to realize the concept of his dream wedding. Even Pandu until back and forth Sleman to the city of Jogjakarta to determine everything is running smoothly and in accordance with his expectations.



In a room, Ervita was in. The woman was so beautiful wearing a white Kebaya with a new flea model with sequin ornaments that spread around the chest to the arms. Make a sequin with a pattern of flowers that are so beautiful. While the rag with Sido Mukti was deliberately chosen because the pattern is one of the patterns of batik that is allowed to be worn by the bride. In the philosophy of Javanese culture Adhi luhung, this batik cloth consists of the word "Sido" which means "to be" and "Mukti" which means a prosperous and prosperous life until the afterlife. This batik cloth is planned by Bu Tari and Pak Hadinata will be worn by Ervita and Pandu on his wedding day. The meaning of this pattern cloth is that the two brides will have a mutual understanding and love for each other.


Ervita has also berias, with paes made of black pidih that adorns his forehead. Paes Jogjakarta pattern depicted on his forehead. Bridal flower arrangements of jasmine, roses, and memories also adorn Ervita's hair there. At first glance, Ervita is so enchanting. Even in a typical Jogjakarta wedding dress like this, no one knows that Ervita already has a daughter.


Bu Sri who picked up Ervita to come out immediately because the marriage contract will take place also seemed to shed tears. Didn't think that his eldest daughter today would actually marry a good young man, a young man who was also dear to Indira, and certainly from a good family.


"Ervi .. now go outside well," asked Bu Sri to her daughter.


"Yes Ma'am ... Indi where's Ma'am?" askinya because he did not see Indira.


"Just like May and Tanto. Yuk, we go out well .. ayune her son This mother," Bu Sri praised her daughter.


With his mother and also Bu Tari who also came to pick him up, Ervita also walked slowly. The woman was so fascinated to see the exquisite wedding decorations. Of course with the main venue is pelaminan which is only decorated with White Roses and Mount Merapi as the background. Very lovely.


It felt like Ervita really did not believe that this was her wedding party. "Ajune Vi ... Pandu can pangling (not recognize - in Javanese)." Ms. Tari whispered and pinched Ervita's arm there.


"Satur nuwun, ma'am," she replied in embarrassment.


Until Ervita saw the figure of his bride had sat and looked so calm in front of his Father and also the ruler there. Ervita also walked steadily to meet her bride who appeared to be wearing white Beskap, in line with the kebaya she was wearing.


Realizing the presence of Ervita, Pandu was amazed. It was as if the princess of kedhaton was walking towards him right now. So beautiful and graceful was her bride. Until finally Bu Tari and Bu Sri sat Ervita on the side of Pandu, and put a white cloth on their heads as a symbol that the marriage was fused two heads.


"Can we start?" ask penghulu.


There was a nod from Mr. Agus and Pandu there. Mr. Agus then immediately shook the hand of Pandu, to the young man that he will give up his precious treasure, namely his daughter in the protection of Pandu. Mr. Agus so tight shook Pandu's hand at that time.


"I marry you, and I marry you to my daughter Ervita Emalia bint Agus Sugiarto with you Pandu Hadinata with a dowry in the form of a dowry and a set of cash prayers."


Mr. Agus read the sentence with a thunderous chest. Full of haru it feels.


"I accept the marriage and marriage of Ervita Emalia bint Agus Sugiarto with the dowry in cash."


Pandu said his Wobulan Ijab in one breath, until the ruler and witnesses agreed to say,


"Well!"


Same with Bu Tari and Bu Sri who also shed tears. The marriage was full day, until the middle-aged woman who now wears green Kebaya was both shedding tears seeing her son and daughter were ready to build a family.


The chanting of the holy verse of the Quran was chanted, so Ervita and Pandu both cupped their palms and lowered their faces. Both of them agree on every verse that was recited that afternoon.


"And among His signs (greatness) is that He created pairs for you of your own kind, that you may tend and be at peace to him, and He made among you a feeling of love and affection. Verily, in this there are signs (of the greatness of God) for the people who think." (QS Ar Rum verse 21)


Great is the Creator who fosters compassion between Pandu and Ervita. Until they can both be one. All because of God's greatness.


The audience who came was so amazed by the dowry and the delivery that the Hadinata family gave to the bride. Not only prayer tools, but also jewelry, the cash framed is so beautiful, and there is also a house key there.


No doubt, the dowry that Ervita received was a lip on the invited guests. Firhan's family attended the wedding. All because they are neighbors, so that the neighbors also come in the celebration organized by their neighbors.


Then the event continued with the embedding of rings on the ring finger of each bride. Ervita first put the wedding ring on Pandu's ring finger, then she lowered her face to kiss the back of her husband's hand. Then, Pandu also put the wedding ring on Ervita's ring finger, then kissed his wife's forehead.


The limited kiss on the forehead given by Pandu really makes Ervita stiffen. Nervousness enveloped him, but he had to try to hold everything back. Moreover, Pandu kissed Ervita's forehead with a long duration, the moment made Ervita feel nervous. However, he could not avoid it because there was a camera that captured the moment in the camera lens shot.


After the ring exchange procession, Pandu and Ervita both proceed to the sungkeman procession as a form of devotion and respect given by the child to his parents. A form of gratitude and gratitude for giving guidance and affection from birth until finally they get married.


Ervita took a prostration position and asked for blessings to her Father and Mother.


"Father and Mother .. please bless Ervi and Mas Pandu. Pray for our marriage to last, "he asked with tears in his eyes.


Mr. Agus and Bu Sri shed tears there. "Mother and Father are sorry Vi .. forgive us for failing to be good parents. Father and Mother certainly bless and hope that your marriage is both lasting and always happy," said Mr. Agus by hugging his daughter.


"Titip Ervi nggih Mas Pandu .. please be guided, guided, hopefully can fill each other with each other," said Pak Agus later to his son-in-law.


"Please sir," replied Pandu wholeheartedly.


Furthermore, Ervita and Pandu are now asking for prayers and blessings to the Hadinata family. The two prostrated themselves before the two old men and Pandu who spoke this time.


"Father and Mother thank you for blessing Pandu and Ervi .. pray for us both that we can establish a marriage shakinah, mawaddah, and wa'rahmah" he asked.


Seen a warm hug from Mr. Hadinata to his son. "Definitely Nak ... I wish you both the best. Now it has garwa (living partner). Well-guarded, valued, and protected. Dear also to Indira, your son," the advice of Mr. Hadinata.


"Sign Sir," said Pandu steadily.


The moment of the sungkeman is so blue. Now the two are sitting together at the venue. So united and harmonious the two together. In Abhayagiri there is a pledge that unites two human children. A promise to love life and life. There are smiles that continue to decorate the faces of the two brides, until the charm of Arga Merapi was lost to the charm of the two brides who are happy now.


Happy Wedding Guide and Ervi!