Muara Kasih Single Mother
A Long Feeling Process
Delivering Ervita to the Hospital about to give birth is actually not the first experience for Pandu. In the past when Ervita was about to give birth to Indi, also Pandulah who drove Ervita to the Hospital. Now, his condition has changed because Pandu is Ervita's husband now.
"It hurts, Nda?" ask the real Pandu who panicked.
Although bringing Ervita is not the first experience, but it feels panicked and also feels sorry for Ervita now. Even while driving, Pandu occasionally rubbed Ervita's stomach there.
"Lumayan, Mas .. kok is sick," Ervita replied with a sigh.
This is not the first experience, but about to give birth it feels amazing pain. Heartburned stomach, the body that responds with pain from head to toe, waist also feels tight and hot.
"In the meantime yes, Dinda .. where traffic is also jammed. Geez," said Pandu by shaking his head because of traffic in the city of Jogjakarta which was jammed at that time.
More than half an hour passed, then they arrived at the Hospital, and Pandu immediately drove his wife to Poli Gyneco. At the time of starting Ervita handled because it is not so many patients. There is a Midwife who will help Ervita now.
"What's the matter, Mom?" ask the midwife.
"My stomach hurts, Mom. Maybe there's been an opening?" ask Ervita.
"How many weeks?" ask the midwife.
"If it's not wrong this is 39 weeks," replied Ervita.
Begin The midwife asked Ervita to prepare because it will be done in the examination first.
"Now please listen to my instructions, ma'am. Open his legs, take a deep breath. We'll do a deep check first and don't think weird yeah, ma'am," the midwife's instructions.
Begin the Midwife inserting three fingers down there to check how many openings have occurred. Exactly, when the midwife's hand is pulled out there already appears there is blood that of course comes from the cervix.
Looking at the blood, and the pain when done check in making Ervita cry. Pandu really did not think that the labor process would be this scary. He used to just stand outside and wait for Ervita. Now being able to see for himself with both eyes felt like making Pandu powerless to hold back. The man was also glazed over there.
"Have opening four, Ms Ervi .. is this the first or second child?" ask the midwife again.
"Second child, Mom," he replied.
"Here directly, ma'am? Did you bring stuff for mom and baby? Usually if the delivery for the second child will be faster the opening process. Waiting for Doctor Arsy, how?" tanyakanya.
This time it was the guide who gave the answer. "Can, Mom ... for a four opening to that perfect opening how long is it?" tanyakanya.
"It depends on the baby too, sir. Like this there is cooperation from Mother and baby. They both seek a birth canal. However, usually for the second child it can be faster. Maybe five or six more deliveries can occur" said the midwife.
Not willing to take the risk, Pandu also chose to wait at the Hospital. Now, Ervita is in her inpatient room in the VIP class at the Mother and Child Special Hospital. While Pandu is also loyal to accompany him.
"If Ms. Ervi is still strong, you can take a walk in this room. Squatting and standing can also strengthen muscles in the pelvis and stimulate increased opening. Already want to open five it means that it has entered an active phase where the sense of contraction will come more often and more pain," said the midwife again.
"Can the pain be stopped?" tanya Pandu who is actually panicking and does not have the heart to see Ervita in pain.
"If labor is normal, it can't be stopped, sir. If there is a contraction, you can wipe his wife's back," replied the Midwife.
Now in the treatment room it was only Ervita and Pandu. Actually, Ervita tried hard not to make her husband worry. He just shed his tears. Because, the pain every time the contraction does increase pain.
"It hurts anyway, Mas .. ssshhss," he replied with a slight hiss because it was so painful.
"Prophey well .. soon we will meet our baby. I just found out that labor hurts this much. I'm tense, Dinda," I'm Pandu.
It is undeniable for the man who has just accompanied his wife in labor, Pandu feels tense. Wanted to do something for Ervita, but she also had no idea what she should do. You can only ask Ervita to be patient. To be sure, Pandu will always accompany Ervita in labor.
"Strong to my Heart .. I used to accompany you from the outside. Now, I will accompany you from the inside. Here, I will always accompany you," said Pandu.
"Don't leave it, Mas" replied Ervita.
Now it was as if the thoughts and memories of a few years ago floated back. Ervita broke her tears. Remembering how she had given birth alone, there was no husband accompanying her. There was a pain that seemed to re-emerge, Ervita powerless to hold back her tears.
"Yes-yes, my Cinderella. Although I myself am actually very afraid, but I will strengthen myself," he replied.
Pandu also said honestly. He's actually very scared. Just now, just to see Ervita done a deep check, she felt pain and grimaced. However, Pandu remembers very well that now Ervita needs her very much.
"Don't cry. You will feel tired if you cry continuously. Save the power to push later, Dinda," replied Pandu.
The man himself wiped away Ervita's tears. Strengthening Ervita. Ask Ervita to save her power to push later. Doesn't want Ervita to be exhausted until it's hard to push.
"You want to drink first? Because the delivery is normal, the patient can eat and drink, unlike the Mother Earth who used to not eat and drink," Pandu replied.
"A little bit, Mom," replied Ervita.
Pandu quickly took a bottle of mineral water, opened the seal, and then gave a pippet for Ervita to drink more comfortably. After that Pandu sat down next to Ervita.
"Is there anything you need? Tell me, don't hesitate," he said.
"You contacted the family in Solo too, Mas. Ask for prayers from Father and Mother" Ervita replied.
Pandu finally contacted the family in Solo and also asked for prayers for Ervita. In addition, Pandu also reported that now Ervita has opened four. Hopefully not long ago, Ervita can give birth. Afterwards Pandu also contacted his family and conveyed Ervita's condition. Hadinata's family also prayed and hoped that this time labor would be smooth.
A few hours passed ...
Ervita felt increasing pain. His face was puffy, and also his whole body felt so sick.
"Mas Pandu ... very sick, Mas," said Ervita wrapped in tears.
"Hold on, Yang .. hopefully soon," replied Pandu.
"This time it hurts a lot" complained Ervita who really could not bear the pain.
"Patience .. we wait until the complete opening first, later we welcome our baby together," replied Pandu.
It feels like he can't bear to see his wife now. If you can, Pandu will replace Ervita and bear all the pain. Maternity pain is a very painful pain, the whole body feels crushed. Now, Pandu sees for himself how it hurts Ervita to give birth to their baby. Hopefully it won't take long and Ervita can give birth safely.