Muara Kasih Single Mother
Trust Don't Get Worn Out
When a brother-in-law can be like a sibling or a best friend it really makes the relationship feel better. Ervita also realized that Pertiwi was a good sister-in-law. Since the first time we met, with a more talkative nature of Pertiwi, it turns out that Pertiwi is good.
Even now Pertiwi could convey her point of view related to the past, making Ervita sure that her brother-in-law was a good person. It is not easy to accept the betrayal of a girlfriend and best friend at once. However, Pertiwi thinks positively it is God's way to bring her closer to her soul mate now.
"Whatever our soul mate is now is the best for us, Vi," said Pertiwi.
The past most likely has its own story and bitterness. Even the most painful thing ever experienced by Ervita also when she was also a single mother for Indi. Away from family and living as if in seclusion. However, maybe it is also the way of the universe to bring it closer to the best soul mate from God.
"Especially my past that was not good, Ma'am. Grateful Mas Pandu and family can accept me as I am. The real me is a stranger accepted and made family. For me this may be the destiny line that God has outlined for me, too" Ervita said.
The mother smiled slowly. "Everybody's got mistakes in the past, Vi. But if we repent, asking God for forgiveness will be forgiven. What is wrong is when there is an opportunity to change, but never want to change. That's what's wrong" Pertiwi replied.
"Yes, Ma'am .. I'm far from perfect. Many sins, Mother. But I try no longer to sin. In the past, I lost my mind by choosing the abortion route, I would have been more sinful. What I did was sinful, but the fetus in my womb was completely innocent."
Telling her past makes Ervita shed her tears. Remembering how he had fallen, how he. Remembering his sins in the past.
"What you did was right, Vi. Well, chatting the two can confide in each other well. Sadly, the time of the heart is troubled and there is no place to share. If anyone wants to hear the story it feels very relieved," Pertiwi replied.
Ervita then nodded her head. "Mbak Pertiwi if you want the stories are okay. I will surely be horrified later. After all, now that Madam Tiwi is close, stories don't have to pay for stories."
"Thank you very much, Vi. You too, if you want to tell a story. Don't think of me as a brother-in-law, think of me as your own brother, your own brother. Don't hesitate, too," replied Pertiwi.
Ervita was happy. Because, indeed with Pertiwi the relationship is good. In addition, put each other like friends.
"Two days to meet Pandu dong," said Pertiwi now.
There Ervita smiled. It does not feel like you will soon meet with Pandu. After trying a long distance relationship.
"Yes, Ma'am .. already miss Mas Pandu," replied Ervita.
"If I was, Vi .. sometimes long LDR if I met can miss it, and really cool. Appreciate the day that has passed and passed one from Jogjakarta, and one from Bandar Lampung. Many stories shared together. It feels so good. Awkwardly," Pertiwi's story.
"That's because Mbak and Mas Damar lama yes LDR, so once met it would like to evaporate the longing. Only, because there are already children, will succumb first to Indi who must miss the same Yayahnya," replied Ervita.
Pertiwi laughed again. "Indeed, sabotaged the same latitude first. Even he was once possessive and then his mother could not be close to his Papa, he said his Papa only had Latitude," the story goes.
"Funny yes, Mbak .. most later Indi also like that. It's a pity that Indi is the same," replied Ervita.
Now Ervita listened while nodding her head. He strongly believes that trust is the foundation of a relationship. And indeed the trust itself should not be obsolete.
Until finally, Ms. Tari came out of the house. Then joined Pertiwi and Ervita in Pendopo. "Yes can talk. If the house is close together, it is good. Can talk to each other. At least there are friends to share," said Bu Tari.
"Yes, Mom ... Pertiwi found a sister, ma'am. Can be invited to confide. If Pandu is a sister to go everywhere," Pertiwi reply.
There, Ma Tari laughed. "This you, everything is used. One for the story, one for the driver. Do not do so, in a family relationship it is used for the word mutual. Let me get along always," replied Miss Tari.
"Joking, Mom .. Kan Pertiwi likes to joke. Life is not taken seriously, is it Vi," Pertiwi replied.
"Yes Mbak .. Lintang wants to go to school where, Ma'am?" ask Ervita then.
"Near here alone, Vi .. If I pick up, not too far away. Indi wants all schools. It could be his class sister Latang later," Pertiwi replied.
Ervita then observed her daughter. "There are still four years, Ma'am .. when Indi is only five years old. Fear, if the school continues to be long bosen. If five years just start kindergarten," replied Ervita.
Actually, now the trend of children is still so small already schooled. Some even have one or two years of school. Actually it is good, because the child will be honed gross motor and fine motor. However, at an early age all children need is the love and example of parents. So, Ervita prefers Indi to be at home first. Gross motor, fine motor, and emotions can be learned at home. In addition, Ervita also strives so that Indi is not too bored.
"Yes, it's only been four years, but Indi's been that sinter. Just look at the same latitude is the same. Pinter loh," reply Pertiwi.
"Later if Indi school, Sky and Irene to be taken care of Anyang Putri well. His grandchildren are a poor school. In the past, it was just a People's School commonly called SR. His children and grandchildren should be in high school" said Bu Tari.
Yes, that is how parents are. In the past, they could not go to high school and were also constrained by costs, even the political situation of the time. However, now when it has advanced, and also many good quality schools. Parents want their children to go to higher school.
"Mbak Pertiwi used to study in what majors, Ma'am?" ask Ervita then.
"Accounting, Vi .. just not being an accountant. Being a Housewife," Pertiwi replied with a laugh.
"Not long after graduation, Pertiwi married Damar, Vi. After that, he was taken to Bandar Lampung there. Accompanying the husband of the placement of service there," reply Bu Tari.
Ervita nodded her head. However, he also knew that Pertiwi was also a smart woman. "Accounting is like me, Ma'am ..it's just me until the fourth semester and out" Ervita replied with a laugh.
"It's okay, Vi .. parenting, caring for the home, solving those problems is also life-long learning. Being a housewife, we also learn."
Hearing the reply from Pertiwi, Ervita nodded her head. She strongly agrees that parenting, caring for the home, maintaining a domestic life is lifelong learning. Where we must also follow the development, educate children according to their time, without forgetting the existing traditions.