Muara Kasih Single Mother
If Dad Loves His Daughter
Sessi bounding between Indi and Pandu which apparently noticed by Ervita made Ervita's heart warm. It is clear that the affection that Pandu gives to Indira is sincere affection. Not on condition of marrying Ervita. Likewise with Indi's affection for Pandu which Ervita believes is also so great. Even now it has been seen so clearly that Indi looks happy and affectionate with Pandu. The affection that is present is not without coercion, but the affection that grows with time.
After Indi fell asleep, Pandu began walking to his own room and he saw Ervita who was taking the baby in her womb chatting together. Pandu also listened to him.
"Growing in your stomach healthy, complete, and perfect, baby .. You will be a happy baby and child because you are surrounded by a family that is very dear to you. Mother, Father, and Mother Didi. This time, you will feel more proud because Dad Pandu is a cool and great Dad figure. He will love you, with enough and full affection, until you don't have to beg for love from others."
The guide who listened to his wife's soft voice slowly took his place by Ervita's side. "Dinda, what's new?"
"Let's talk baby" she replied.
Pandu smiled and he now also rubbed the top of Ervita's head there. "You're so mellow, I know your eyes are already glazed over. Here's my same story," replied Pandu.
"No, just overwhelmed. Look at you and Indi just now" Ervita replied.
"New for what?" ask Pandu again.
Ervita slowly shuffled and looked at her husband, "The affection you gave for Indi is huge. He who is not your son, your flesh and blood, you love so much. I could feel that it was the affection that was present due to the time that fostered the affection. That's not a form of coercion. Indi must be happy to have you as her father" Ervita replied.
Maybe because the pregnancy hormones are also volatile make Ervita more sensitive and mellow. It was as if he remembered that there are many parents out there who only love their partners, but not their children. While Pandu looks very loving Indi.
"Yes, I told you, Nda .. I love Indi since she was in your womb. Only then was it confusing how to express it. If you want, when you're pregnant, I want to marry you" Pandu replied.
Ervita smiled slowly, "I will be an illegitimate wife for you to touch until birth and after the puerperium, Mas. Better wait," Ervita replied.
"Yes, and I've been waiting 2 years and 9 months to ask you. I will continue to love Indi, even when her sister later. My love for Indi will not change" Pandu said.
Hearing what Pandu said, Ervita nodded her head. "Makasih Mas Pandu .. has loved Indi and accepted Indi as his own son. If, he has a father figure that is not good, I am very sure Indi will lose his smile, feel rejected from birth. Just imagine that I can't" Ervita replied.
Pandu immediately embraces his wife, "Sama-sama Dinda, so at a later time if I am wrong or love Indi inappropriately, I rebuke. Its alright. I'll willingly rebuke you," replied Pandu.
"I've read a sentence that means a lot, Mas. If a father gives enough love and affection to his daughter. Who treated him appropriately and appropriately. There is no need to beg for love in the wrong person. Because, the child knows what it feels like to be loved by his father appropriately. For he is not thirsty for love, so as not to take a sip of love from whatever is proffered to him. Children can choose the right love. You can reject unhealthy love. So, how important is the affection of a father for his daughter" said Ervita at length.
The guide who listened to Ervita nodded his head, with the occasional rubbing of Ervita's stomach there, "Yes, I will try, Nda. I also agree that the acceptance of a child begins in the family. Thus, we are his parents who must accept him, less and more, his interests and talents. When Indi and maybe his sister will grow up, I hope they can both reject unhealthy love" Pandu replied.
"Thank you for loving Indi sincerely, Mas Pandu," said Ervita.
Ervita smiled again, feeling relieved because her husband was indeed the type of man who was not neko-neko and could also protect her. Even after being with Pandu, Ervita seemed to forget all the difficulties of life and isolation that she had been through. Everything changes, and the beautiful colorful bow is present in the form of a Hadinata Pandu.
"Ah, when it comes to children must be mellow," Ervita replied later.
"All parents will be like that too, Dinda," replied Pandu.
"Mas, may ask ... is the affection for Indi is growing alone or what?" ask Ervita.
Guide silently, and try to remember again. Afterwards he replied, "Yes, it is a pity that I am pardoning the newborn Indi. I saw this little baby like a piece of white, clean, immaculate paper. Poor little baby has no father. It was my heart to love Indi, and I wanted to be one of the pens that would write beautiful notes, to be the color in that little baby who was still like that white paper. Since then, so dear .. want to carry him, want to invite him to talk, want to say, "Son baby .. even though you were born in imperfection. There's me who'll love you. Even without the biological connection, blood and flesh, I make sure that I love you" explained Pandu.
All of that is not just speech. Because, when Indi was an infant, Pandu also took the role to deliver Ervita and Indi to the Puskesmas for immunization, Pandu also often helped Ervita although not much. Love that grows by itself.
"Unbelievable Mas .. I was moved to hear it," Ervita replied.
"Had, don't be sad so .. later baby sister follow sad. Here, I hug first," said Pandu.
The man carried Ervita in his arms, with a hand that brushed Ervita's long hair and kissed Ervita's head. Ervita could also feel that the love and affection from Pandu for her was also so great.
"Please Mas Pandu .. has been present in my life and made me have a partner who accepts all my brackets. So, want to cry," replied Ervita.
Pandu laughed, "Here, I'm not the superhero who saves the world, Nda .. All this I do is out of love" Pandu said.
"Yes, because your love is so great that's what makes me so moved" Ervita replied.
"Yes ..I couldn't see you cry the most. Since long ago, my chest was so tight it felt like seeing you cry. I want you to be happy when you live with me. To be happy is what I want, Dinda," replied Pandu.
Ervita broke her husband's embrace for a moment. Then, the woman ventured to her face, and grabbed the side of her husband's face. Then, Ervita so carefully anchored her kiss on her husband's lips for a few seconds that the two lips stuck to each other.
"I love you Mas Pandu" he said.
"Sama Dinda ... I also love you," replied Pandu.
It is an expression of love. The love that is present grows because time grows. The love that Ervita feels is getting bigger because every day increasingly seen the maturity of Pandu both as a husband, as a friend, as a brother, and as a father for Indi.