Hope and Wish
R&W32. Givan's father's good intentions

"Don't be the most adept, Van! What is your life?! If your wife wasn't a joke either, your kids would be more unlucky than you." Pakwa pointed at my father's face. 

Om Hamdan to lower the index finger that leads to the face of his father-in-law. 

"Well, I understand that women are very influential in their lives. Keep you have a daughter, you don't make Canda a minimum benchmark for your daughter?! I'm that broken man, the whole family knows I'm broken, but it could be at this point because it's got a woman in Canda's cake. Even if Hema is damaged amazingly, if her woman is Canda cake maybe she can change. Well, you know what kind of kid you're on, plus Hema's cake, and you're just sorry for Bunga, right? You don't think, why is this such a problem, then? Wh why? Hema drugs? I used to be the same, the type I wear is more dangerous even. Hema gambling, I'm hanging out with my friend to see the ball in the coffee shop, I definitely spend money on bets. Even Hema is not a crazy woman, not a broken woman, but she's so broken now. I can change so far, can't Hema change? Sure can! I don't mean to think patriarchy, or blame the women. But in a man's life, a woman is the heart of his life, Bang. You know the history of papah connect me, you know the story of my real father too. They change for the better, after getting women who can take them for the better. Yes papah Adi click same mamah Dinda, Hendra's father click the same Shura mother, I click the same Canda, simply so it is, Bang. Do not choose a future wife just because of beauty, choose one that can educate children well, later in the future, because the first education of the child is from his mother. Regardless of the statement, women are good for good men, women are bad for bad men. Because as bad as the man, yes want to get a good wife. Why is it called cake? Because usually women and men have feelings because they often meet in the same place, cakes for example at night clubs. They often stay together until they get married. It's not about bad men can be bad women too, but because they're in the same circle. Whether male or female, they really want to get a better partner than him, so they can be good parents for their children. Continuing women who always come to study, suddenly can a husband who likes to come to religious studies as well. It is also not necessarily because good women can be good men too, because they are one circle and can aja ustadz in the study introduce each other and eventually they get married. So, please don't like the tug-of-war about my bad luck and my kids' luck. Until this moment, I am still trying to be a better role model, so parents are more able to guide again. My job will never be finished, even grown children they still have to be taken with me to educate my grandchildren. Don't let luck just get into my son's hands, but it doesn't get to my grandchildren. I've always been scared, Bang. I interfered, because of my fear of my own life experience. Do not let my grandchildren and my next offspring, someone feels the wrong way to my youth. It wasn't an experience that could serve as an example or guideline, it was broken once." Dad patted his own chest repeatedly. 

I am moved to be a father's son, I am proud to have a father who wants to change better for his wife's child and for himself. 

"I decided on Zee to take care of Han, so that Bunga has time to improve and prepare, Bang. I love him, but I don't want to keep him going too hard, I'm afraid he stays that way, I'm afraid he can't stand on his own feet. So now that you're alive, I'm still healthy, let's get her pointed, until she's able to achieve her own happiness. I'm not talking about child characters anymore, Bang. But I'm worried about your son becoming a pest for other people's lives. It's not that I'm afraid she's ruining Ra and Han's household. Let alone the Flower, the Martyr who was made to bleed. I'm not proud of Ra's brutal actions, but I must be very sad that my son is bleeding. As long as he still wants to be my son, wants to be directed and advised, I will continue to love the best for him. This is not for my biological children, Jasmine to Bunga I still try my best life, if they really want to be advised, want to be directed and obey the same steps I give. Now it's your turn to be her biological parents, how? Are you ridho your son I'm leading? I'm not stepping in, I'm having a discussion because I know you're more entitled, Bang. Only with your decision that always ends to facilitate Flowers and pamper her again without demanding and directing, yes sorry I reprimand because I love her too. Long ago after Bunga became a widow for the first time from his sir's marriage, you directed him to education, but you were released and you did not control. Understand you're more bothered to your special children, but that doesn't mean normal children should be put aside, until finally normal children become very special and PR is right now." I gasped for breath because I talked too much. 

I understand my father's feelings now. 

"Ra is tall, I don't ask her to push up every day. Key is agile to chase his son, I don't get used to him running the race anyway. Cani is not at home in the pesantren, I picked up and I educated here. How am I nekannya? Did I force Cani into another boarding school? Not really, I asked what was the problem in the pesantren and what he wanted. Key, Ra, Jasmine, Ceysa and the other daughter-in-law, I asked them what they were leaning into, what hobbies and what business? I don't mean Chandra has to open a new mine, I don't mean Zio's keeping my material shop, Bang. They make their own choices, I keep pointing from the minus to zero and until now it is stable. If indeed the flower lacks affection, yes the love of affection that is not in the form of a head stroke, do not love the luxury and love of the husband impromptu again, later if the cake yesterday again, how?" Although father is emotional, but he can still convey this all well. 

But how come I'm here, why don't you think the same as you do? Are the levels of affection from adoptive parents and biological parents different? 

I became really worried if Flowers became a pest in my household and bang Workshop. 

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