Rajasa
Perceiving

Edelweis, Malika, Vienna and Rajasa travel to Ryan's rented house.

"Why did you contract the house? Not buying and investing in property? Preparation if you get married?"Ask Rajasa.

"I have no plans to get married. I'm nomadic. Why buy a house? Just troublesome. It's better this way to contract. If I want to move jobs. Just move the contract to a more suitable place."

"Your rented house is tiny?"

"I just live alone. Small house is easy to clean."

"Your house is comfortable and clean." Edelweis.

"thank you. Someone helped me clean the house and go."

Rajasa threw himself on the living room sofa. Malika travels around Ryan's house accompanied by Vienna.

Malika is very interested in the arrangement of the photo album that Ryan put in the glass cabinet.

Trying to open the glass cabinet but in vain and she started crying.

"What's the matter, baby?" Ryan asked carrying Malika who was crying annoyed.

"She wants to play with your photo album." Sahut Rajasa who pays attention to Malika polah, "Don't be Malika! It's gonna ruin Ryan's photo album." Reggar father.

"Malika can play with the photo album om but should not be tampered with."

Malika nodded her head as if understanding. He can't wait to play with the photo album.

"You don't spoil him! Photo albums are not for toys. If he's used to playing with something he can't play with. It will become a habit. If it was a habit, it would be very difficult to ask him to refrain from damaging things."

"Can you relax?" Ryan laughed, "Your son is not always small. That's what you need to understand. The greater especially if he has a lot of understanding and understanding will be easier to communicate. His understanding is also increasing." Ryan kissed Malika's cheeks, "I agree with your words to teach children early on which ones are toys and not toys. But of course the way must be comfortable and not make children become intimidated."

"You understand children very well. Why don't you get married or become a teacher?"

"My passion is in journalism and you're asking me to teach?"

"I think a lot will help you if you become a teacher or work in day care."

Ryan chuckled, "Everyone can understand children as long as they don't put their egos forward and want to understand all children."

"Frankly understanding the ins and outs of work is much easier than understanding Malika."Rajasa.

Kontan Ryan chuckled, "That's your problem. Your passion at work is not your child. You're father. You should have connected to your son. Your instincts should be to understand, guard and protect them. But because the focus of your attention is just work. Of course things got really hard."

Malika stomped her feet and her hands pointed at the photo album.

"Well, om will get it but it must not be tampered with. It's not a toy."

Malika nodded her head impatiently. Ryan released the photo album and Malika wanted to open the plastic and remove the photos.

"You see he wants to ruin your photo album. He nodded his head but did the opposite." Sahut Rajasa's.

"He did not understand the consequences of nodding his head. He just wanted to quickly play with the photo album. Kids are like that. It's easy to say yes but not consistent. Because they have not been able to synchronize what they say with the consequences. Especially if it doesn't come from them."

"You're gonna let Malika ruin your photo album?"

"Of course not."

"Then? He seemed to want to open the plastic lining your photos and take out the photos."

Ryan went to his room. Pouncing on tissue and various clean socks of his with various colors. Put it next to Malika who is trying to release the plastic in the photo album.

Malika stopped her activities. Look at the colorful tissue and socks. Keep away the album that is trying to utak utiknya. Grab those tissues and socks.

Ryan took the album that Malika just put away and put it back in the closet.

The laughter exploded.

"You sucky father! Easily surrender!"

"Malika is too abstract for me."

"Your ego is too big. Understand children, you have to understand them as much as individuals. You have to understand their limitations. Their character. Accept them for who they are before you set boundaries and directions that they can follow."

"If Malika and Edelweis are comfortable with you. Just natural. You're so understanding."

"That is a human need. That means they are not selfish. You can also as long as you want to lower your ego."

"Malica! Here baby!" Call Rajasa.

"Your son is playing."

"I want to hug and kiss her."

"You come to him. If he is disturbed. Understand it! He's playing fun. Just like you if you're busy working and being bullied. What's it feel like?"

"It feels like a mountain that wants to spit out its lava."

"Malika is the same. Young children also need to be appreciated especially often they have difficulty conveying the contents of their minds."

"I imagine taking care of a child is very easy. Edelweis and I have been preparing since her pregnancy. Read the necessary books. Watching videos. But practice?"

"The experience of each parent and child's character is not the same. You may have references, but you must also understand your child well."

"Yeah! You said Malika's nature was similar to mine. I've started to feel like those references are failing because none of them describe my character."

Ryan laughed again, "I'm glad you've understood so well."

"All characters are plus minus. Learning to observe, listen and understand is the hardest part."

"I didn't expect being a parent wasn't as easy as I thought."

"The hardest job is being a parent. I can understand Malika because she's not my own child. But if I have children later. You may be the one who understands better than me."

"Means I can understand your wife better than you can."

"Consider this his name."

"How does it feel if someone else understands your wife better than you do?"

"I don't mean to interfere in the affairs of the two of you. I'm just trying to help. No other intention."

"If you were in my position. How's it?"

"I definitely don't like it. But if there is no other way to mediate? Although jealous but seen the benefits. Instead of your relationship getting strained and run aground?"

"Can it run aground?"

"What do you think the woman who asked for the divorce was because of? Most communication problems. Women are very sensitive creatures. Just like Malika. If he's comfortable then everything will be fine. But if he doesn't feel comfortable. Then it will all feel wrong. Women are less able to use their logic. They can only use their feelings. Must be patient and do not corner or make them more confused."

"You understand women and children but you don't want to get married."

"Don't want to get married. I have not met my soul mate. If you have met a soul mate. I must be married."

"Just leave your wife's child to me. Did you yourself say the possibility of understanding them is someone else?"

"Have a son!"

The laughter exploded.