Rajasa
The Arguments
Rajasa went to his lawyer's office for legal consultation and drafted an argument they would use for mediation and trial if mediation failed.
Rajasa sits on a soft sofa inside his lawyer's office. Ice coffee cappucino and various pastries are served on a rectangular table in front of it.
“Your wife claims you committed an affair.”
“I'm polygamous not cheating.”
“Your polygamy is unofficial.”
“Religibly legitimate. It is illegal state. Wherever possible Edelweis will give consent to me to polygamy.”
“What's your argument?”
“I am polygamous because my wife does not carry out her duties. Ignoring my needs.”
“Can you explain perspective in more detail?”
“My wife is taking issue with the polygamy I did in the past. He accidentally found a cell phone containing my affair with my sir's wife at that time. How is this legally?”
“Your polygamy is religiously unrecognized by the state. Religion is legitimate. Evidence found without investigation or judicial permission. It cannot be accepted as evidence. Must be examined and assessed at trial. The judge who will decide whether it is acceptable as a fact of the trial or not.”
“Can I not have sex with my own wife? Even in series?”
“Marriage will cause a number of impacts of rights and obligations.”
“The evidence is not evidence of infidelity or adultery religiously. But proof of siri's marriage between me and my sir's ex-wife.”
“Countrywise, your polygamy is invalid and could be considered adultery.”
“If the marriage of the series is not recognized, isbat or can not be proven is not?”
“Yeah.”
“My wife wants to discredit me. I could've paid my sir's wedding but it's over. For such a formality? The marriage of the series can be proven and recognized. So it cannot be considered adultery.”
“You listened to my explanation very well.” His lawyer nodded his head.
“Is my wife's relationship with Ryan justifiable?”
“You accuse your wife of adultery with your best friend?”
“Not. Is it permissible for a husband to divorce his wife. A woman divorced from her husband. Then marry her?”
“Technically the law. A husband can divorce his wife and not have an iddah period. A wife whose divorce suit is approved by her husband or the court can certainly remarry.”
“As adab. Is allowed?”
“You speak of propriety?”
“Yeah. A husband should divorce his wife. Forcing a woman to divorce from her husband. Then they got married after being free from their respective marriages.”
“You've read my specific argument?”
“Yeah. I also think the same even though I do not understand from the legal side.”
“I will raise Article 1365 KUHPdt about the disobedience that I have explained in the legal argument that I have compiled. I also talked about your right to be religiously polygamous. In this case I add to your wife's negligence in carrying out her duties as a wife. Encouraging polygamy religiously. State polygamy is impossible because your wife will not give you permission. But religiously it is your right especially if there is a logical reason to support it.”
“Yeah. Thanks.”
“Yeah. The marriage happened because I was forced into a state of.”
“Armature.”
“Yeah, emergency.”
“Your wife's lawyer has directed that the religious polygamy you direct is not recognized by the state and is considered adultery. Your polygamy will be interpreted as infidelity or adultery in an indirect interpretation. Analogical.”
“Like the argument you compiled. Polygamy if diisbat or recognized then this will be different. In the country of polygamy does not have the impact of civil relations but religiously polygamy meets its pillars and legitimate.”
“Yeah, that's exactly what I'm going to reveal. That “adultery or infidelity” legally impact on his civil relationship is not religious legal. In other words adultery is not essentially or substantially but in its civil relation.”
“My ex-wife does not demand the right of living or gono gini or any civil relationship. I finished the marriage myself. Moreover?”
“Yeah. Your wife's lawyer wants peace. Asking you to grant your wife's divorce and divide the gono gini property doesn't need 50-50. Demands 30-70. How?”
“I won't grant my wife's divorce request. I've already finished everything. There is no divorce so there are no demands whatsoever regarding child custody and property gono gini.”
“Your wife insists on divorce.”
“The demands are very emotional. I've ended Siri's marriage. Just like my ex-wife's testimony and you can ask yourself about my wife's negligence in carrying out her obligations in that time frame. I see she wants a gap to formalize her relationship with Ryan.”
“Yeah, I'll raise the issue. Legally propriety."
“Yeah. What about my wife's mental and financial condition?”
“I did ask an expert witness in the field of psychology to check the competence of your wife in parenting and taking care of children. Not working and totally dependent on the husband. Cannot set priorities. Lack of competence. Doubt it." His lawyer.
“Yeah. Not a fatal psychosis but disrupt the life of the household and childcare. If my wife forces a divorce, she will lose custody of the child and the distribution of the property. I'll just give you some compensation or mut’ah. The demand for the rights of gono gini was rejected because he doubted his ability to manage money. Child custody switched to me. Doubting her competence in caring for and raising children. There's an indication of child neglect." Sahut Rajasa's.
"Foster custody from mother to father can indeed switch if there is an indication of child neglect because the condition of the mother is dubious both financially and psychologically. Is it because of busyness or bad habits or financial problems. Lack of competence. Anything that leads to child neglect." His lawyer typed in a few extra sentences in his lap top.
“That's what I'm talking to his lawyer about. Her lawyer is also persuading your wife to drop her divorce suit and make a new deal with you. You will not repeat the affair again or you are forced to grant your wife's wishes for divorce, child custody and property gono gini.” Keep lawyer.
“Yeah. I accepted the deal from his lawyer. Without being asked. I've ended the Siri marriage. And did not intend to do it again.Especially we both have been able to overcome the problems that have afflicted both of us. Her lawyer is more able to dispose of her case than my wife who is being overwhelmed by emotions." Rajasa.
“Hopefully your wife will accept the deal.”
“Yeah! Hopefully...”.
“Most cases, divorce is inevitable because the husband cannot keep his promise. Can't let go of his sir's wife.”
“That didn't happen to me. If I can't let go of my sir's wife. Chances are I'll grant my wife's divorce, grant child custody and meet her gono ginininya property demands.”