Lembayung Dusk
The Aqiqah Dewun...

Twilight

After discussing with papah, mamah and mother also enin. Finally, we agreed that in addition to inviting close relatives, we will also invite children in the orphanage foundation belonging to Papah Lembayung.In shaa Allah for more blessings.

Besides, mom told me last night that I had to invite 'her' and Rico's. Of course you're glad to hear him so he yells when he calls on the phone.

Actually, I never hated ka Rico. during his time in Bandung, he often helped me also help mom regardless of the entanglement of his former boss first. Until finally. now the old man languished in the kerobok** Bali newspaper which is famous is one of the cruelest pages besides nusakamba****.

No doubt. his case spread everywhere, human trafficking, drugs, pimps and many other crimes.

Well.. Twilight.

Maybe it's time to open your heart.

Mother and I spoke from heart to heart again discussing this, as usual.deptalk has become accustomed between me and mother for now.

Mom says she wants to embrace a new life by starting to love and forgive herself.

Well. mom's word is everything and the main thing.

***

"Monday... "

"Mhmmm.. "

"I'm afraid.dew later if kissed with other people how? " Lembayung was agitated and complaining, we were in our room and getting ready. An hour later the show will start.

"Ya gapapa dong. means many are equally fond of Dew.. " I said confidently, but even in reply to my wife's delicacy.

"Iiihhhh can't know! "

"Why? "

"You don't care to kiss a baby, especially if we are sick.. NO.. Never have!The reason is, newborns are easier to get infected.It is important for us to not let anyone smell the Dew. can not kiss the baby especially during the first 3 months of birth!"

"There have been cases, a mother told me how her child was infected with HSV-1 (herpes virus) when he was kissed by an adult who was again canker sores. The boy was hospitalized for a virus that spread throughout his body. Then there is another baby who was diagnosed with a serious respiratory tract infection due to Respiratory Syncytial Virus (RSV) when he was kissed the same adults who again flu, his tiny body had to be fitted with many tubes and wires connected to the monitor because he could not breathe on his own.. Naudzubillah, O Allah, I do not have the heart to see. "

I was stunned, such a trivial thing turned out to have a big impact on the baby.

"This is Allah, may everyone now understand me.. "

"That's you don't know! moreover, the parents of the twilight.they are not many who see the internet! " Lembayung grunts.

"Honey. sometimes the news on the internet is just nakutin, so we parno itself you know.. " My words tried to calm my wife. Mamah said, Ayung might indeed be exposed to the baby blues lightly. Because now often the mood swing really, a bit quickly angry.sometimes crybaby and cry ga clearly.

But this only lasts between 3 days to 2 weeks after giving birth. And this is a natural thing because of the big changes in young mothers who suddenly have to face the fact that there is a small baby that demands to be cared for and taken care of. She was still sick from giving birth.

Family support, especially me as a husband is very Lembayung need at this time.

"Don't underestimate the important problem like dong Duska. ga not only foods that can make babies allergic, but also from the dust that sticks from the road, we do not know which is healthy or not, and the virus can last 24 hours, even lipstick aja many people do not realize that gluten can also be on lipstick. Gluten can cause an autoimmune response in the body, so a child may be at risk for cancer and other autoimmune disorders." Again Lembayung restless.

"Yes already. later before the event began, we give understanding through the MC yes. let it be better to deliver it so that it does not offend others, let alone parents. "

"Yeah.but really yes! "

"My dear father Umm Qotrunnada.. "

"Don't forget to wash your hands with soap! I told you I was chatty too.. "

"Dad. yaah.. "

"That's the Dew is awake.. Embuun ayoo wants to change clothes first same diaper yaa...! " Lembayung approaches the baby box and holds the Dew.

When replacing his diaper Lembayung shouted, "Baba Embuun herei... Alhamdulillahot.. "

I approached and noticed, it turned out that the umbilical cord was already loose and dry.

Alhamdulillahot..

Yesterday, Lembayung always complained of fear when bathing or replacing the Dew diaper..He very carefully and painstakingly treated every detail on the body of the Dew.

"Naaah umma's son is already beautiful deeh... uhh.. Who looks like sigh beautiful amaaat? "

"Children baba. certainly look like baba..see the iris of his eyes. exactly rich baba right... " I don't want to lose, get close to the Dew being carried by my wife.

"Dad deh baba's son. his face ketiplek bang baba.. but fortunately his skin is rich white umma. trus hair is also thick.. " Timpal Lembayung while rubbing anti-mosquito lotion on the hands and feet of Dew.

"Hahaha.we become rich little children who rival each other toys. "

"Yes yes. whereas it is Dew blendnya baba sama umma...."

***

Temporizing

Finally, the event began with the opening of the host invited all the invitations to read Basmallah together.

I circled my eyes around. There was Girl, Risa and Nindy in the corner. The children were orphans and there were some close relatives of the papah and mama families. Also, there is a figure that I first saw, namely his father Dusk accompanied by ka Rico. I met him once when besuk Dusk in the field.

Furthermore, the speech delivered by the papah as the host, the papah conveys the purpose and purpose in holding this aqiqah event and thanks all the guests who have taken the time to attend.

The main event, which is to shave the baby's hair symbolically followed by the endorsement of the baby's name.

There is a hadith that explains about aqiqah and shaving baby hair in Islam, namely..

“Every child has his aqiqah, slay him for him and excrete him,” (HR. Bukhari)

(From the hadith referred to “remove dirt from him” is shaving baby hair. Shaving baby hair can be done before or after the implementation of aqiqah. Because basically, the law of shaving hair on the seventh day after birth is a disgusted sunnah, both for baby boys and baby girls, is not mandatory)

I carried the Dew, and the one who first cut his hair was Mr. Sharif.

"Bismilbornrohmanirohim. Alhamdulillahi robbil 'alamin, Allahumma nuurusamawawaati sa nuurusyamsi wal. Allahuma sirrullah nuurunnubuwwati rosullahi shollallahi 'alaihi wassalam. Walhamdulillahi robbil 'natural." He blew the Dew tubers while praying again, "Allahumma inni u'iiduhaa wadzuriyyatahaa bika minasy syaithoonir rojiim."

After Mr. Sharif, alternating papah then followed my husband and father, then ka Rico and all relatives took turns to cut the Dew hair while praying.

After returning to sit, the event continued with tausiyah from Pak Sharif. A short talk about how the process of creation of a human being and when the spirit is blown, about the purpose of aqiqah and about the charity of prayer that will never be interrupted.

Thank God all the series of events went well, and now Dew is asleep in a bouncer in the corner of another room that is far from the reach of people.

As a mother, I really wanted to pay attention to the details about Dew.

"Tabitle... " Suddenly a little boy ran up to me, who turned out to be Maryam the daughter of Mr. Sharif.

"eehh.. Maryaaam... " I immediately held the adorable little girl in my arms.

"Teh Ayuun's.. Ayuun Tea.. What is the name of his dede? " Sanya plain while playing her toys.

"The name is Dew darling.. "

"Grewd? hello Embuun.. main yuuuk! "

"Hihhi.. Dedek Dewnya again bobok, Maryam want to eat? "

He shook his head and immediately saw his mother approaching him.

Lho?

"Maryaam... How are you doing? "

"Good.. " Reply replied.

"Maryam wants to eat? where's Tina ma'am? " Ask mom while looking for Tina's mom, Maryam's nanny.

"Bu Tina Indak.. Mayam abi.. "

"Then, yuuk ate the same aunt.. Ayung, I want to invite Maryam to eat in the dining room.. Where is twilight? gapapa's living alone? " Ask mom, holding Maryam's hand.

"Gapapa..Dusk again chatting with Mr. Sharif and the guests.bentar again definitely nyamperin. " Sign me to Girl, Risa and Nindy.

"Yes mom went to the dining room first. Come on Maryam..! " Mom passed by while guiding Maryam, and the adorable little girl walked over while jumping for joy.

Oh Allah...

Maryam seems to like the mother seen from her expression when looking at mother.

"Duuuarr!! "

I'm aghast '"Ihh Nindy. the ngagetin! the Dew will wake up! "

"Abis you daydream while looking at his Mother Dusk. That's his son Pak Syarif is not it? "

"Eh iyah ya.. pak Sharif's son mah, what's his name anyway? " Girl chiming.

"Mariam... " Answer Risa.

"Well, sir Sharif sometimes like to take it to school, he said no one guard.. " Nindy.

"Mother Dusk is also beautiful.. " Said Risa.

"Yes yes. fit well sir Sharif, Maryam also seems familiar yes same mother... "

I glanced, "Huuush. You're a bashman! udaah.hayu we go to my room.. " Take me while holding the Dew that is still asleep.

Deep down..

I'm berdo'a...

May you have happiness that you have never felt...

Verily Allah has a way and a plan for His servant to be patient.