Lembayung Dusk
Born to Love each other: Lembayung Maida Abdullah

Mamah Lembayung's

"Mas.please adzani Dusk! gapapa mas's? "

Mas Fadli nodded.Senja was carried by him, then my husband echoed the adhan in the ear of Dusk.

"Alhamdulillah.. " We all give thanks.

"Aaaaw. mas. his contractions are perked again, this hurts more mas..! " I grimaced back to endure the pain.

"Mas wants to call the mother midwife first.. " In a panic my husband ran out of the room.

"I want to lay Dusk in his box, a little tea! " Iin walked while stumbling away from the room.

"My son. yuuk we cooperate with mamah son..! " I stroked my stomach affectionately, trying to get me to talk to you to cooperate.

There are several studies that show that regularly inviting babies to talk while still in the womb, can build an emotional bond between mother and fetus.

After birth, babies who are accustomed to hearing the voice of their mothers will feel calmer and not easily fussy every time the mother invites him to talk.

In fact, according to other research states that the fetus has the ability in psychological and biological development at the time of contraception. Thus the ability begins to be able to react to external stimuli.

The mother's voice can accelerate the fetal heart rate due to fetal nerve cell lesion. This is the right time for pregnant women to do stimulation or stimulation. When the fetus hears the mother's voice, the fetal heart rate will move actively.

Unlike when the fetus hears the voice of others where the heart rhythm will slow down.When the fetal heart rhythm is active the fetus stores words known as cognitive stimulation.

"Let's pray, son.. Hasbunallah Wanikmal Vice-Nikmal Maula Wanikman Nasir ..enough Allah as a place of ourselves for us, as well as our protector and best helper."

My son reacted, he stomped his feet until something stood out in the front of my stomach.

"You are a smart child.His prayer child is mamah...! " I rubbed my stomach and my son kept reacting.

"Neng.patient ya. bu midwife is examining other patients who will also give birth. So there's only an assistant now free."

"Huuuuhh... " I sighed deeply and exhaled slowly, along with that my son's head kept pressing.

"Father mas.aku.I can still hold. huuuuhh.. "

"Mother. I try to check first for a moment yes. oh this has been opening 9, a while longer. patience yes ma'am..! " The assistant midwife stood up and then prepared to prepare the equipment for childbirth.

"Mommy has eaten? "

I shook my head, since morning I only ate a snack of wet cakes made by Inayah's mother, Iin's mother.

"Must eat mom. I have a lot of energy! "

"Bring me some tea. This is eat first! " Iin came to bring a plate of food.

At a time like this, I really do not naf** eat. Moreover, because it has opened 9 positions I have to lie down and get ready to give birth.

I'm shaking."You don't want In. you can't.. Huuh.. " Regularly sighing in times of great pain and heartburn I feel more and more, as if there is pressure to defecate here as well.

"Akuu ga kuaaat.bu bidaaan.. tolooong.. Oh God! " I clasped the hand of my husband who kept thinking and shed tears of sorrow.

"So soon ma'am..patan.. soon the mother midwife comes, she is also helping give birth to other patients! "

"Why give precedence to patients who just came ma'am.this is my sister already want to give birth! " Iin said to the assistant midwife who looked a bit nervous.

"This is beyond our control ma'am.The patient came while Fatimah's mother was still opening 7 earlier."

A debate ensued between the assistant and Iin, while my husband just kept pondering and paid more attention by wiping off the sweat and stroking my back to calm down.

"Haahh. huuuuuhhh. this.... this.. " I felt a tremendous panic that was just the first time I felt.

"Mother don't panic. Let's open slowly ma'am.. "

"Maa.. "

"Father..may I help my wife give birth without a mother Midwife pa? I have been with him for decades and know what to do! this...the opening is perfect sir.The state of the mother is weak, the baby must come out immediately! "

"Okay, ma'am.. Bissmillah pleads for God's help.. "

The assistant midwife nodded.

"Mom Iin. Can you help me mom? "

Iin immediately approached the assistant midwife and helped her prepare whatever she asked for.

"Ayoo breathe buu.. buaang perlahannn.. naah like that. lepaas! come on, baby's head is half ma'am.. "

"Haaahhh..huuhhh! "

"Don't stop, ma'am, just a little more! "

"Nnngggs.... "Akupun pushed as hard as he could.

"Hasbunallah Wanikmal Deputy Nikmal Maula Wanikman Nasir .."

"Oeek. oeekk.. "

"Alhamdulillah.. Thank God the mother is great. her child has been born ma'am.. congratulations daughter mother..complete beauty like a doll..! "

"I'm tired of it. I want to sleep.. "

I drooped helplessly and closed both windows of the eyes to rest the body that was no longer strong to withstand fatigue.

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"Oeek. oeekk.. "

"Alhamdulillah.. Thank God the mother is great. her child has been born ma'am.. congratulations daughter mother..complete beauty like a doll..! "

Tears continued to flow along with the birth of my first child, the child that we had been craving for 3 years of marriage.

I can't watch my wife risking her life between life and death like that.

Mom remembers in Pasuruan.

I'm sorry ma'am..

Forgive your son!

This is why, Rasulullah Shallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, when asked who should we treat well, and prioritize first?

first, your mother..

second, Mother..

Third, Mother..

Then, father.

...3x Allah is Elohim to do good to your mother, verily Allah wills you to do good to your father, verily, Allah wills unto you to do good to the closest relatives then the near ones.” (CHR. Ibn Majah, shahih with his shawahid)...

The process of giving birth is a life and death struggle. How not, during the process of giving birth, giving birth is the end of a long waiting process during pregnancy.

The uterus of a pregnant mother will expand 500 times its normal size to accommodate its contents.

Blood lost through normal birth is 500ml. This is equal to half a liter.

The human body is only able to bear the pain of up to 45 Del.While during childbirth the mother will experience up to 57 Del, equal to the pain of 20 bones that are broken simultaneously.

It is amazing how mothers struggle during childbirth.

"I'm tired of it. I want to sleep.. " He fell asleep a few minutes after giving birth.

I rubbed and kissed my wife's head.

"Thank you for giving birth to our daughter.. "

Meanwhile Iin, was busy helping the assistant midwife who was now cutting my son's umbilical cord. Then they cleaned and then weighed and measured my son's weight and height.

"This is his son sir. please in the carrying, because Fatimah's mother is asleep. later it's okay to put the baby on the mother's chest for IMD! "

"Alhamdulillah beautiful baby girl.., born on November 21, 20** at 18.21 WITA. with a weight of 2.6kg and height of 48cm."

"Beautiful lll.. Ma shaa Allah.. " Iin approaching. "Whose name? " ask.

"Readyung.according to the name my wife wanted! "

Iin smiled and nodded. Then rub my son's head slowly. While muttering reciting the do'a.

"Then I went to the next room first yes mas Fadli. I was also very tired, wanted to sleep! "

"Astaghfirullah In. of course!you also just gave birth to even directly help my wife..Thank you very much In.. "

"Yeah mas.. " Iin walked staggeringly towards her room.

Poor girl, she's a very strong girl.

"Bembayung son of papah. someday you should thank aunt Iin yaa. because she has helped mamah to give birth to you into the world.one day love and respect aunt Iin like your mother.. "

"Uugh.. " My wife was moaning, after about half an hour of sleep.

"Maas.. Is this our son? Oh Allah... " He cried happily when he opened his eyes, the first he saw was Lembayung who was on his stomach, struggling to find the source of his livelihood. The instincts of a mother and child..

"Assalamu'alaykum beautiful mama who shalihah.welcome Iaaang! "

"Mas has named our son neng..!"

"Oh yeah? " He responded and then he went back to talking to our son.

"Rabeling.. "

"Alhamdulillah agreed with that name? "

I'm nodding. "The name was given by Iin.mas agreed, because he had helped you give birth even though he himself still felt pain.. "

Tears flowed from both eyes of my wife.

"Dad mas.we owe so much to that poor girl! "

"Maida Abdullah Institute.. "

"Ma Shay Allah, your name is beautiful, son! "

"That means a beautiful servant of Allah (woman). "

"BarrakaAllah my dear son.. BarrakaAllah.. "

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