Mahram To Azira
Chapters 31.13

But of course Azira and Umi did not allow it. As a result, the child can only go to onion school first in the boarding school. Only after he was 7 years old, his son would officially become a santri in a boarding house owned by his family.The first 3 years entered the boarding school, the boarding school, the child can go home 4 times a month. It means he can go home every week. But after 3 years, which is 3 years later his son can only go home once a month because it can be considered adapted to cottage education. Then 6 years after education at the boarding school, more precisely separi with high school education outside, his son can only go home once every 6 months. This education seems very strict but has good value for children and parents.

For the education of children, do not be too soft because children are the investment of parents for the afterlife later. If the child is well educated, devoted to parents, understands right and wrong, and obeys God, then God willing, this investment can be said to be successful.

But if otherwise, then it is a debt that must be immediately accounted for to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. For the child is a trust from God to be cared for and raised well.

"Mas, don't think weird about our son." Azira said she was not happy.

Did her husband throw their child into the boarding school at the age of 3?

Azira and Umi were very frightened to hear it. Fortunately Umi helps Azira speak so Kenzie then changes his plan from 3 years to 5 years, although it is a bit annoying but Azira understands that this is for the good of their child.

Azira also did not want to see her son grow up like him. Growing up without a deep religious knowledge and has many shortcomings. Fortunately her husband Kenzie, a man who was always understanding and soft-hearted to her.

"I don't think that's weird, baby." Kenzie is helpless.

Azira smiled amusedly. She touched the handsome face of her husband, tracing every inch of his charming face. Eyebrows, eyes, nose, lips and chin. Azira touches whichever side she wants. The feeling of touching her husband's face was very strange. In his heart was a shout claiming that all sides of this face were his. Even the owner of this face did not escape his power.

He's so amazing!

"Mas Kenzie would you mind if we did 'that'?" Azira took the initiative timidly.

Kenzie hasn't gone in the direction of Azira's conversation.

"What do I do, baby?" Ask casually.

Azira's face was very hot. Usually the one who always asks for Kenzie's rations, and the task is only to follow what Kenzie asks. But this particular day Azira suddenly had a desire, and out of nowhere the courage came from, she suddenly took the initiative to invite her husband.

Maybe because of today's incident or because of the careful talk they just did. The point is Azira's desire is ignited.

"Drug, mas."

Stupidly Kenzie was still unconscious, "What drug, we have finished praying and studying" Kenzie suddenly looked towards Azira.

Azira was more and more embarrassed to be stared at like that by her husband.

"Mas Kenzie won't worship with me?" Tanya Azira braved herself.

Surprised, looking towards the window, it was still afternoon. It's still afternoon!

"Now... I want to be really. This is exactly what I was waiting for. But what about tumben?" Kenzie hurriedly replied.

He knew he shouldn't have asked this because Azira must have been embarrassed. But he could not help the curiosity in his heart, because it was so rare!

Azira's cheeks are getting hotter.

"Am I not to ask Kenzie? Though I've heard from a study on TV that explains that one of the keys to heaven for a woman is to be devoted to her husband. Doesn't Kenzie want to be my woman of heaven? Then this is one way I'm grabbing it. Getting ridho husband also get ridho from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, I certainly will not waste this opportunity."

Who among the servants does not want to go to heaven? Especially if the entry is free from any door! Is there any practice that can lead a servant to such a precious opportunity? The answer is of course there is.

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا صَلَّتْ الْمَرْأَةُ خَمْسَهَا وَصَامَتْ شَهْرَهَا وَحَفِظَتْ فَرْجَهَا وَأَطَاعَتْ زَوْجَهَا قِيلَ لَهَا ادْخُلِي الْجَنَّةَ مِنْ أَيِّ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ شِئْتِ

Prophet of Allah Shallallahu alaihi wasallam bersabda,

“If a wife prays fardhu five times, fasts a whole month (in the month of Romadhan), keeps ********* and’ her husband, then it says to her, ‘Enter into heaven from whichever door you want!” [HR Ahmed 1664, . (CHR. Ahmad of Abdurrahman bin ‘Auf radhiyallahu’anhu and declared hasan by Shaykh al-Albany)]

Keep Kenzie honor both when out of the house and in the house. No sunnah without Kenzie's permission. Not betraying or thinking of anyone other than Kenzie. Kissing the hand when Kenzie was about to work and go home from work, Azira had done all this in earnest, hoping that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala would meridhoi their marriage.

Umi always told him to keep serving Kenzie because Kenzie Ridho is a ridho of God as well. If you want to reach heaven, then pamper first the key bearer of heaven in the world, namely her own husband, Kenzie.

"God my wife has learned many things without me noticing. You are an understanding and good wife, God willing, God will be pleased with you." Kenzie whispered in a gentle and satisfying mood.

After being trapped in the gloom caused by the family of Father, here his wife is present to provide warmth. He pushed away the uncomfortable feeling from his heart. After marriage, Kenzie realized why the Prophet Shallallahu alaihi wasallam hastened marriage rather than rambling, such as dating.

Marriage is like a cure or an antidote for all liver problems. It could be that someone did not get the thing he liked outside but when he went inside the house and met his beloved wife then all the displeasure was immediately evaporated out of nowhere. Everything seems to be left when you see the big smile of the wife, marriage is sweet. But on the condition that marriage is undertaken voluntarily and both men and women work together to foster a harmonious household

If between the two parties there is no cooperation then it is useless, getting married instead of being a cure or antidote but it only adds to liver disease. Naudzubillah, this kind of marriage should be avoided.

"Amiin Amiin Allahumma Amiin O Allah, there is nothing better in this world than the ridho Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. If a servant does not receive the pleasure of Allah, then does not it mean that Allah has forsaken him? Naudzubillah mas, I do not want God to leave me and mas Kenzie m I do not want God to turn away from us. I'm so scared. For if God no longer cared for His servant, then to whom else would we seek help? No, no one will be able to help us. Therefore, I always try to maintain my relationship with God through Kenzie, Abah and Umi, as well as other families. I'm trying to keep the rope of the divine behind all of us. But when dealing with Dad's family, I was scared. I was afraid because my indifferent attitude made God unhappy, because I might break the cord between us. But I don't want to. I didn't mean to do that. It's just... I was confused how to deal with my father and his family. From the past to Dad's present attitude, it's been hard." Azira felt a dilemma.

Sometimes his heart is torn to repair his relationship with his father and family. But somehow it feels so hard. It is difficult, maybe because the past is too disappointing coupled with the attitude of the father who does not change makes Azira difficult to face the father.

Because of this, he felt very confused. What's he supposed to do?

"Slow Azira. Slowly everything will be fixed by time. If you can't deal with it now then face it when you're ready. It wasn't your fault for it to be like this. If asked who was at fault, the answer would be his father and family. But even so I still support you to improve your relationship with father and others. After all, no matter how evil they are, they are still our family. The blessings can be kept, as long as they do not repeat the same crimes to you then I will forgive them. You are a gentle wife, inversely proportional to my first impression when I first met you." Azira used to be cuek, she did not like to talk much, and looked a bit difficult to get along with.

But over time Azira's personality began to change. She became a cheerful, smiling, shy, and very smart woman who took everyone's heart. This change was felt directly by Kenzie himself. He felt happy for his wife because slowly his wife's heart was locked and had frozen, finally melted and open to anyone. Of course there's only one ruler in there, yes it's a Kenzie!

"Oh yeah, what was I like?"

"You used to be a bit indifferent, hard to smile and always gave people a sense of distance. But you are now very bright. You become a cheerful woman, easy to get along with, good at seizing the hearts of many people, like to smile and the most important thing is that you love both my parents very much. I am very satisfied with your change. By the way we've gone too far, when can we worship?" Kenzie finally regained his senses and hurriedly brought the important topic back.

He must not miss this important moment. Finally he was given a ration!

Azira chokes. Her hands were itching to pinch her husband's cheeks. Her husband is too straightforward. It was a pity that Azira could not ruin the handsome face of her husband, because she could not bear to hurt this face!

"Se.now, it's okay." Azira answered nervously.

Kenzie smiled broadly. Because Azira had given the green light, he immediately felt the gas to carry out the important task of the ruler of his heart.

"Well, I won't miss this opportunity. My dear wife, do not be afraid, I will try to be gentle with you." Kenzie's whisper is asductive as he stroked the head of his loving wife.

Azira closed her eyes feeling comfortable as well as embarrassed.

"Gum." Azira resigned, she fully surrendered herself to the husband without a fight.

Azira hopes that through their worship today, God will always protect her household with her husband.