Mas Duda Looking For Mom Milk
Baby C in Tantrum Time
There was something different from Baby Citra this time. The little guy became crying a lot and just wanted to be carried constantly. Mama Rina wonders if it is because Tama who has returned to work as IT Engineering at a large company in Jakarta, or because she feels uncomfortable and unhealthy. That afternoon, Mama Rina tried to calm her grandson down.
“Mbak Mina .. here, let Citra come with me first,” pinta Mama Rina.
“Ya Bu,” reply Mbak Mina by giving Image to Eyangnya.
Mama Rina looked at Citra's face. The baby was still crying, then Mama Rina felt the diapers used Citra. Perhaps, she was crying because her diapers were full. Therefore, Mama Rina also replaced the baby diapers.
“Cup-cup-cup Unfortunately Grandma ... the beautiful kok nangis continue anyway? Why, Son .. here, same story. Honey, cup yes well .. now Papa Tama works first, so you can save for Citra, meet the needs of Citra. Later in the afternoon Papa has come home,” said Mama Rina.
It was as if the little one was listening to his Grandmother's words, so Citra was slowly silent. Start the crying alternated with typical baby babbling.
“That's it .. say what the hell this beauty is. Unfortunately Grandma,” reply Mama Rina by holding Citra and moving her own body slowly.
“Mbak Mina, if Citra nangis try to be seen in the diapers, Mbak .. sapa know diapersnya full. Babies can feel uncomfortable because diapers are full. Or maybe sultry, if sultry and sweaty clothes are changed, Mba .. clothes affected by spit (spit ASI) can make the baby uncomfortable and later can cause prickly heat, prickly heat,” Mama Rina's message to Mbak Mina.
Fully Mama Rina told about taking care of the baby to Mbak Mina, so that Citra could be cared for properly. Not just being a Mother of Milk, but Mama Mina also served as a babbysitter for her granddaughter.
“Ya Bu,” sahut Mbak Mina with brief.
After Citra felt calm, Mama Rina again handed over Citra to Mbak Mina. However, strangely Citra again cried every held by Mbak Mina. So many times, Citra must be passed and pacified by Mama Rina herself.
“You why Citra? Still want to be the same Grandma yah?” ask Mama Rina.
There are times when parents look sad to hear a baby who is constantly crying. Because, the baby can only cry, can not convey what he wants directly. So, Mama Rina wondered what really happened to Citra.
“Ya already, Ms. Mina .. please clothes-dip Citra first well, later if it's here again give ASI for Citra,” pinta Mama Rina.
“Ya Bu,” Mbak Mina answered briefly.
Mama Rina feels dizzy. Mbak Mina looks insincere in nurturing Citra. A young baby can feel the feelings of the person who nurtures him. If taken care of insincerely, the baby can feel uncomfortable. They could not speak yet, but they could convey their discomfort with their cries.
“Good child image well .. follow Mbak Mina well, Grandma also always keep the Image. The image is not alone. Later in the afternoon, can play with Papa and Grandpa,” said Mama Rina again.
The middle-aged woman was unceasingly giving voice to Citra. Although Citra also can not respond to it, but Mama Rina still provide sounding to Citra.
Sounding itself is saying the same thing over and over again. This same thing means positive words with the purpose of the words embedded in a person's subconscious mind. Sounding itself has a variety of good benefits for babies starting to be able to put the baby to sleep and make sleep more soundly, overcome fussy babies or those who often tantrums, and also change baby habits.
When afternoon came, Tama who had just come home from the office seemed to want to hold her little baby. However, Mama Rina immediately prevented it.
"Wake up first, Tama. Many viruses are attached to your body. Babies are sensitive to germs and viruses, try to touch the baby if you are clean," prevent Mama Rina to her son who just came home from the office.
Tama nodded her head, the man quickly headed to his bathroom and then cleaned his body. Immediately hurry up, so that he can immediately carry Citra.
"Here, Baby C comes with Papa first," Pinta Tama who has opened her hand and is about to hold Baby Citra in her hand.
Mama Rina also arranged the position of Citra to be comfortable in her Papa sling.
"Be careful, Tama," said Mama Rina.
"Partner all day this time papa was working. Sorry, Papa has to work. Only, on Saturdays and Sundays, Papa has a holiday. So, on weekends Papa's time is entirely for you" Tama told the baby.
"This day the image is a lot of fuss, Tam .. whether because of hunger, full diapers, or other inconveniences," Mama Rina told her son.
Hearing that her little baby turns out to be fussy all day, makes Tama feel guilty. If only Mama was still alive, surely the late Mama would love Citra and calm Citra when crying. But now her daughter was crying and her nanny and grandmother could calm her down.
"Citra nangis yah? Same story Papa here. Why crying? During Papa's work, Citra joined Mbak Mina first. Papa works to make money for Citra as well" Tama said, showing her sad face.
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Two Days Hose ….
Apparently the fussy Citra phase is still continuing. The baby was crying so hard. While Mbak Mina is also only limited to carrying and not doing any sounding for Citra.
“Mbak, try Citra talked to .. sung so. If the Mbaknya just shut up, yes Citra can cry more,” Mama Rina scolded this time to Mbak Mina.
This is not the first time, Mama Rina reprimanded and advised Mbak Mina. However, it has been several times in the last three days. Mama Rina to shake her own head with Mina's behavior.
“Sini Mbak .. Citra come with me. Ma'am this how the hell, the baby not only needs milk and carried, invited to talk also let him know there are people around,” said Mama Rina this time.
Presumably this time Mama Rina was quite upset with Mbak Mina who was passive and insincere with Citra. For wages that a month reached 4 million, but only almost a week Mina actually showed a bad attitude and did not look sincere caring for Citra.