Mas Duda Looking For Mom Milk
Healthy Mothers Key to Family Happiness
After last night passed, Anaya and Tama's activities began by drying both babies. That morning, Citra still did not wake up. Charel and Charla are awake. Until this morning, Anaya was holding Charla, while Tama was holding Charel, both of whom were hanging the Twins on the balcony of their room.
The twins only wear diapers and blindfolds so as not to glare with the sun. Looks reddish skin Charel and Charla are getting flushed when they are sun dried.
“Jemur first Nak .. to be healthy,” said Tama by holding Charel.
Anaya who saw Tama holding Charel was smiling, "So inget first when you sunk Kak Citra like this deh Mas.. with your messy hair, her face was also covered with sleep deprivation," reply Anaya.
Tama then laughed there, "My hair is messy, honey? Yes, so .. guys right if being a widower is not taken care of darling. Wherever there is care, there I have to take care of myself and take care of my baby. It's so, shaggy hair," he replied.
It is a fact, that when a man loses his life companion will be an unkempt figure. Hair disheveled, face drooling due to lack of sleep, clothes and clothes worn all around. Else, if you have his wife there who tidied up his appearance, someone took his clothes. Therefore, men are so widowed, will look like people who are not taken care of.
"What a pity, Papa Tama," Anaya replied.
"I feel sorry, but since I met you, my life has changed. Slowly I can organize my life again, slowly I can get up again" Tama replied.
"Sama Mas. At first I felt really broken. The symptoms that I experienced post traumatic last night can be insomnia and can not sleep at all, then the sadness is like I can not control. I almost want to break my own tone, because the winning post traumatic cannot be controlled. However, after meeting Citra, I also slowly arranged my life," Anaya replied.
Tama looked surprised to hear Anaya's story. Maybe this is the first time Tama heard that Anaya almost wanted to cut her own pulse. Slowly Tama shook her head.
"Thank God, you recovered and now have a healthy mentality. The key to happiness in the family is a healthy and happy wife Dear," Tama replies.
What Tama says is entirely true that when a mother feels healthy, mentally, and also happy then the existence of a mother will be very influential for the whole family. Mother who is also a wife if healthy and happy, can make a husband happy. Having healthy food for husband and children, accommodating the needs of the husband, and also bounding time regularly with the husband because it sees the husband and wife relationship is also just an obligation, but is a means to be happy. A healthy and happy mother can nurture children well, providing a good role model in behaving, thinking, and speaking. A healthy and happy mother can bring happiness in her family. Therefore, motherhood is the key to happiness is family.
"That's important, huh, Mas?" ask Anaya.
"Yes Dear .. so, always healthy well .. healthy physically and also mentally. Always happy. Therefore, always sharing anything with me. When there is a problem and feel something do not hold your own," replied Tama.
Anaya also chuckled amusedly there, "You are like a cadre of PKK deh Mas .. if in PKK is given socialization so that the family is healthy and prosperous. Very funny, "Anaya replied.
Anaya recalled that when she had followed the PKK at Mama Rina's house first, there was family empowerment that provided guidance and guidance so that the family could live a healthy life, progress, and mandir. It is also mentioned that the welfare of the family is the condition of fulfilling the basic human needs of each family member materially, socially, mentally and spiritually so that it can live a decent life as a beneficial human being.
Being a healthy family starts from home, finding happiness in everyday life, finding happiness when a wife serves the husband, finding happiness when acting as the first madrassa for children at home. If happiness in the house has been obtained, it will certainly feel happiness also born and inner. No need to find happiness out there.
"God willing, with you .. I will always be happy" Anaya replied.
Tama nodded her head slowly, "If I'm not happy with you, tell me, dear .. so I can make you happy" Tama replied.
"Yes Mas .. behind Mas babynya, his back also let be exposed to sunlight," replied Anaya.
"Baby was sun dried as funny as this Mas," said Anaya who looks happy to see Charla and Charel sun dried by wearing glasses and just wearing diapers.
"That's darling, funny .. sometimes they are so, funny poses, but it could be pup loh," Tama replied.
That was also from Tama's previous experience when he used to take care of Citra alone. Cute baby when dried, it can be pup. So Tama is no stranger to pup, even a sputtered baby. Because, Tama had taken care of Citra with all these conditions when she was a widower.
"Can't you be disgusted anyway Mas? Usually the father will throw his son to his wife when they are spit or pup," Anaya replied. It was also Anaya asked because she used to see for herself how Tama cleans Citra with her own two hands.
"Make anything disgusted, Yang .. for him only 45 spirit really, once the baby comes out look so unwilling. So Father, yes must be seen in the care and care of his son. Moreover, I used to be a widower, had no choice," Tama replied.
Anaya who heard it laughed, "Even you washed my dirty clothes from the Hospital. Sorry, Mas" Anaya replied.
"No problem, dear. We complement each other. The point is, I'll help you as much as I can. Our household duties can be shared. You don't do anything heavy because of the incision scar, honey. Remember the first 3 weeks of that recovery phase, "reply Tama.
"You're Best Hubby and Best Daddy like this, I'm definitely healthy and happy" Anaya replied.
It was a true expression that her husband was a great man. As a husband, Tama is also willing to take care of his wife, not to feel disgusted, as a Papa, Tama is also involved to take care of the Twins. Really a dream husband and father.
"Must be happy. Now let me take care of you, My Love .. later if I'm old and maybe old, take care of me well."
Tama said that with a glance at his wife, "Yes, I will also take care of you. We are together, healthy and sick. We take care of each other" Anaya replied.
"Thank You My Love .. yes already, this has been fifteen minutes, we bring Charla and Charel in, given ASI first well. I prepared a bath for the two of them" Tama replied.
The two slowly stepped into the room through a balcony in their room, then opened the Twins blindfold and then prepared a bath for both.
"Father, really ... Charel pup deh," Anaya replied with a laugh.
Apparently what Tama said just now is right because now Charel is actually already pup, but the pose when sunbathing is so funny.
Tama laughed, "Yes, I cleaned her pup, Honey .. You give ASI to Charla first. Just sit on the couch, honey," Tama replied.
Slowly Anaya smiled there, "Thou are lukewarm and Papaable gini, how am I not healthy and happy" Anaya replied again.
"Must be healthy and happy, let me, Citra, Charel, and Charla also be happy. I Love U, My Love!"