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Feeling Insecure
It did not feel like a month had passed, and it was true that Doctor Indri said that Anaya's appetite had increased, so her cheeks were getting chubby, her stomach was also getting bigger. Though the pregnancy had just stepped on 12 weeks, but it was so swollen stomach.
“Mas, I'm getting fatter well?” ask Anaya now to her husband.
Tama who felt questioned by his wife even shook his head, “Nggak .. not fat really. Why Babe?” tanyakanya.
“Long .. I'm this fat. Already up eight kilograms,” reply Anaya with a down and see some parts of his body that increasingly contain. Not only the cheeks, but also the arms, thighs, to the stomach.
“That's okay, right said Aunt Indri is indeed a mother who is pregnant with twins will feel her appetite increases and her stomach has grown even though it is only the first trimester. So, yes this is natural and natural Dear,” reply Tama.
The answer that Tama gave did refer to the explanation from the previous Indri Doctor that when pregnant twins will experience an appetite that enjoys, weight gain, and also a stomach that looks bloated in the first trimester. A non-existent answer.
"Do you like fat women, don't you?" ask Anaya again.
Tama smiled, presumably Tama can predict where Anaya's conversation is going right now. Tama smiled again and held his wife's hand.
"I like .. let alone you. You're a darling .. want fat or skinny, I've always liked you. You're fat because you're pregnant with baby twins. We're both pregnant, so I like .. I love you. Don't insecure Honey .. I've always liked you for who you are. Provided it's Anaya," Tama replied.
It was not just a rumble, but Tama answered him sincerely, that the precious thing in his eyes was Anaya. Whether it was fat or skinny, in his eyes Anaya's value was the same. Anaya is his wife whom he always loves no matter what.
"I feel insecure" I'm Anaya now to her husband.
Anaya was honest that she said what she felt now. He was insecure with his body expanding and so contained. In the past, when Anaya had been pregnant alone, Anaya only rose a few pounds until the pregnancy entered nine months. But now, only 12 weeks pregnant and Anaya has experienced a surge of eight kilograms of weight.
"Yes, feeling insecure is commonplace Dear ..just you should know, that in my eyes, you are always beautiful. You are gaining weight because you are pregnant with our child. For me it is precisely the sacrificial proof of a Mother who wants to lose her proportional body shape and contain a new life in here" Tama replied.
This time Anaya was relieved when Tama said that she viewed Anaya not as a woman who experienced a weight surge. However, Tama said that it was proof of the sacrifice of a mother who was willing to lose her proportional body shape.
Anaya nodded her head, "So, is it okay?" ask again as if confirming the answer from her husband.
"I thought you were going to insecurely look at my now unattractive body" I Anaya honestly said.
"Don't Darling .. You always pull me," Tama replied honestly anyway.
A clear example is that women who experience weight gain in pregnancy also feel insecure. Feeling unattractive, unsightly. The situation can be even more chaotic if the husband also becomes a person who is ignorant and indifferent with his wife. While Tama looked at added weight Anaya because it was a real sacrifice of a woman who wanted to lose the interesting thing in her life to give birth to a baby.
"Thank you ..Thanks to you and your views like this, I grew my heart. Thank you for seeing me as my worth as an Anaya, not as Anaya who is now gaining eight pounds. Thank you," Anaya replied honestly.
Tama hugged his wife, rubbed her fragrant floral hair and kissed her slowly, "I love you Honey. If only your weight jumps and makes the ilfeel is wrong," replied Tama.
The two chose to be both silent, until Tama whispered something in Anaya's ear, "For me .. You're just a sexy darling .. I like it more," she whispered and kissed Anaya's cheek that was getting chubby.
Anaya even laughed and hit her husband's chest, "Sexy what, round all kayak gini really," Anaya replied.
"Sexy's not because you're getting fat. Sexy because in my eyes yes because you are so. It's you getting bigger, and I like, keep your passion burning, I like Honey .. really like it," replied Tama.
Maybe this time Tama answered a little more mischievously and felt some things on his wife's body, but it was an honest answer from a Tama.
"Mode" answered Anaya.
"Honestly, the more H.O.T," replied Tama by holding tightly to his wife.
Ah, so shameful was Anaya when her husband said so. That's because during pregnancy both activities are burning. Volconological eruptions have occurred many times. Magma movement activity was also monitored increasingly smouldering.
"Whatever happens, I always and always love you, dear. You are the Anaya I always loved" Tama said.
Really, Anaya is so happy. He thought that with his body getting full and lots of fat deposits here and there, Tama would not be interested in him. However, Tama's confession encouraged Anaya. It feels like Anaya also got the right partner and appreciated the changes that happened to her. For all that, Anaya is very grateful.