Mas Duda Looking For Mom Milk
Think of Early Menopause
In the past, after giving birth and knowing that her uterus had been removed, one thing that was cleared in Anaya's mind was that she was going through menopause. Menopause itself is a phenomenon of stopping the production of female reproductive hormones that cause her to no longer menstruate. In general, menopause occurs at the age of 45 to 55 years. A woman is said to experience premature menopause if it has occurred at the age of less than 40 years.
Whereas before, Anaya had read that when about to menopause a woman will become sultry during the day and night can shiver cold, sweat when sleeping, the essence of the body becomes dry, and the essence of the body becomes dry, decreased sexual desire, and also feeling anxious. To be honest, there is a fear that Anaya experienced that her husband was young, if she herself had experienced a decrease in passion how with her husband later.
"Well, baby?" ask Tama as soon as they get home and their children are asleep.
"I think my uterus was fully lifted, Mas. As far as I know if the uterus is fully removed, menstruation will stop, and I will experience early menopause. Apparently the hysterectomy done is partial, there is still an ovary and a palopian tube. When the worst possibility is menopause, what do I think?" anaya asked her husband.
Tama looked at Anaya's face there, and guessed what Anaya was thinking. "What do you think, baby?" tanya Tama later.
"What I think is you, Mas .. I read when menopause occurs a woman will experience a decrease in sex drive. While you yourself are young. So, I'm so afraid I can't keep up with you" she replied.
Hearing what Anaya said, Tama sighed slowly and then looked at his wife. "I can adapt to you, dear .. I have you as my life companion, already very grateful," he replied.
"Jujur Mas .. at the age that you are so passionate, cook I have experienced a decrease in sexual desire. I'm afraid I can't give what I have to give" Anaya replied.
"I don't think about it, honey .. I think you're healthy and can take good care of the kids. That's it," replied Tama.
"Yes, female reproductive health is very complex Mas .. not infrequently in our reproductive organs there are also diseases that nest in it. Even the disease if left unchecked can take lives. The removal of the reproductive organs will have an impact," explained Anaya.
It is true that female reproductive problems are very complex and also not infrequently there are diseases that exist around the reproductive organs such as cysts, endometriosis, even Placenta Acreta also experienced by Anaya. For this reason, women need to be reproductive health. When any part is taken, and it affects the health and also has an impact in the future. For example, women who experience cysts near the ovaries, forced to be removed one or both ovaries. Sometimes they will have difficulty getting pregnant in the future. This is so obvious that the reproductive health of women is very complex.
"Yes, right Honey .. so now, I'm grateful because at least you're not early menopause" Tama replied.
Anaya nodded her head slowly, "True Mas .. To be honest, I'm not ready to deal with it either. I'm 26 years old, it feels like the trials I've been through are too much."
Tama then opened both hands, hinting to his wife to be able to get into his arms. So that Anaya also shuffled and poured into the arms of her husband. The woman closed her eyes, scorching her face on her husband's chest, with her two hands encircling her husband's waist area. So also with Tama who clutched tightly Anaya's body, and occasionally Tama lowered his face to kiss his wife's forehead.
"True my Love .. that you've experienced so much. You are still so young. The strong yes Darling ... In even the toughest phase of your life, I will be there and accompany you" Tama replied.
Yes, he promised that even in the toughest phase of life, Tama will always be with Anaya and also accompany her. However, Tama will always accompany Anaya.
"You are like this who gives me more strength, Mas .. if there is no you, I don't know .. how will I be," Anaya replied.
"I will try to carry out my role as a husband who will accompany you in hard and happy, in healthy and sick. So, I'll always do it, honey."
"Thank you so much Husband" Anaya replied.
"The Same My Love ...."
Enjoying the body that is still both hugging, then Tama touched the arm of Anaya who had just planted contraception there. "It hurts, dear?" tanya Tama later.
"Yes, linu is loh Mas, so it hurts," Anaya replied.
Tama nodded her head, "I just look at Linu Darling. Enough with three kids with you. We take care and foster until they grow up" Tama replied.
Yes, seeing the severity of Anaya's condition, it seems Tama himself also experienced trauma with childbirth. It was not possible until his wife experienced things that were so painful during childbirth. Tama had already established her heart that it was enough to have a Trio C. Don't want another.
"Just road production, huh Mas?" anaya asked with a little laugh there.
Tama also laughed and chuckled amusedly, "Yes, it is undeniable that the inner living needs a darling. Until you are fully healed. I'm still traumatized darling seeing you in pain and bleeding like you used to" Tama replied.
"That's when you saw Mas?" ask Anaya.
"Yes, even though the cloth was stretched out just yes it was seen the hands of the Doctors whose gloves were red, dear. First with Mama Citra first until she is finally gone, and the last with you until you bleeding heavily with placenta accreta and uterine damage there. So, I guess I can't take it, honey," Tama replied.
Not to reminisce about the past, but Tama honestly admitted that she experienced her own trauma related to childbirth. For Tama himself, it is also better that he no longer faces his partner in labor.
"You're traumatized too, huh, Mom?" ask Anaya.
"Yes, I might go crazy if what happened was really bad, honey .. I saw how red the doctors' medical gloves were. The more times you have a blood transfusion," Tama replied with a sigh that felt so heavy.
Anaya also smiled there, "You also have to recover, Mas .. You strengthen me, but I have not strengthened you yet" he replied.
"You're healthy and you've strengthened me, baby," Tama replied.
It was an honest confession from Tama that when Anaya could be healthy, she felt stronger and better. Enough of all that.