Sharing Love: Winning Without Love
Cloudy Day
A few days after returning home from vacation, Khaira felt her health was declining. She complained to her husband when he was home after work.
"Mas, I'm menstruating this time but it's really painful. My pelvis, abdomen, and back pain. So ill. A few days ago, my body also had a fever." He said, holding Arsyila on his thigh.
Hearing the complaints from his wife, Radit was panicked. Usually during the red cross, his wife is a healthy type of woman. Never felt a complaint due to the monthly pain he suffered.
"It hurts so bad, honey? Want to see a doctor?" he asked as his hands rubbed his wife's back.
Khaira shook her head. "Pain from menstruation to the Doctor, Mas. Arrested first, Mas. Hope it heals quickly." he replied as he sighed slowly.
"Where else is sick, dear?" radit asked with a face that looked anxious. "Better tonight we go to Doctor Yuk Darling? With regards to the female reproductive apparatus, I'm afraid." she replied that could only wipe Khaira's back at this time.
Khaira nodded her head. "I called Mother Dyah first Mas, nitip Syila. But this is afternoon. Is it tomorrow, Mommy?" she asked for consideration from her husband.
"You can hold on? It hurts like hell?" tanyakanya.
Khaira nodded her head. "Sickness, Mas ... The pain is like there is an interval sometimes constantly, sometimes it goes away." replied Khaira.
Hearing his wife's answer, it seemed Radit could not procrastinate anymore. He immediately contacted Mother Dyah and intended to leave Arsyila. And ask Khaira to prepare first while waiting for Mother Dyah to come.
After Mother Dyah and Father Ammar came, Radit and Khaira rushed to the Hospital. They again visited Doctor Indri, as Obgyn who was accustomed to handling Khaira.
"Hello Bu Khaira ... Meet again, what's going on this time? Will I install contraception?" ask Dr. Indri kindly. Indri's doctor thought that Khaira would re-install contraceptives.
Khaira first smiled and began to suffer what had happened to Doctor Indri. "No, Doctor .. actually like this, this time I had my period, but it hurt a lot in the abdomen, waist, and back area. It hurts so much, but usually I never feel menstrual pain." Khaira told Dr. Indri.
The doctor is seen listening to Khaira's story. "How long has it been for Mom?"
Khaira immediately pulled out the phone, to see the menstrual period. However, suddenly his eyes are patterned to see a row of calendars in his phone application.
Two weeks?
Cook all this time anyway?
Khaira said to herself in her heart, before answering Doctor Indri's question.
"As per my calendar, it's been two weeks, Doc." replied Khaira quite frantically, usually the period of the red date is only five days, how shocked Khaira this time period up to two weeks.
"We'll check first, ma'am."
Not until Khaira did a further check, he felt his body sweat cold, his legs were shaking as if he lost his strength, the pain in the back area was also getting worse. Khaira bit her inner lip and one hand held her husband's hand.
"My eyes are thick, Mas." lamented to her husband.
Panicked with Khaira's hands that felt cold and sweaty circles on his forehead, Radit also conveyed his wife's complaint to Doctor Indri. "So, this is how my wife says her eyes are twitching, and her hands are cold."
With the help of the nurse, Khaira had been lying on top of the gurney and taken to the nursing room. Radit is asked to wait outside when the doctor checks on Khaira.
About twenty minutes, Doctor Indri checked Khaira's condition after that, he met Radit.
"Sir, so here it is. What Mother Khaira experienced was a miscarriage or abortion insipiens. If examined the age of the new bladder 6 weeks, so it is still very weak. It was likely due to soy sauce and too much thought, causing bleeding. Next, curettage will be done to clean the remaining tissue in the uterus to prevent heavy bleeding or after a miscarriage."
Radit was confused, because Khaira did not show any signs of pregnancy. In addition, Khaira is also still breastfeeding Arsyila. Some people say breastfeeding is one type of KB. "My wife is still breastfeeding Arsyila, how can I get pregnant Doc?"
"True sir, breastfeeding is often called natural KB, but mothers can still get pregnant while breastfeeding because it is related in the fertile period. So the chances of pregnancy, still exist." replied Dr. Indri.
Hearing that his wife miscarried of course, Radit was very anxious. "How long's the curettage, Doc? Was there any impact after that?"
"Curette or curettage procedures generally take about 10–15 minutes, and patients will get anesthesia while undergoing this procedure. Mild side effects that can occur are light bleeding, cramps or abdominal pain, dizziness, nausea, and vomiting which are the effects of total anesthesia." explained Dr. Indri.
Radit hears the procedure and possible side effects. "If in the future we want to have another child, it doesn't have any effect, right Doc?" Radit asked anxiously, especially the influence on Khaira if they want to have another baby.
Doctor Indri shook his head. "Nothing, sir. Many patients who after doing curettage can also still have offspring. Precisely if no curettage is feared there is still tissue left in the womb, so it must be removed and cleaned."
Little explanation from Doctor Indri little won Radit that at other times they can still have offspring. Radit finally approved the curettage procedure done on his wife.
Because Khaira had to be treated and observed after curettage for approximately 6 to 8 hours, Radit told the news to his family. So that his family does not worry and there are still those who take care of Arsyila first.
The curettage procedure was over, now waiting for Khaira to be aware of the drug. Radit was allowed to accompany his wife who was still unconscious. The man sat on the edge of the gurney and clasped Khaira's hand tightly.
"Rapidly healed Darling .. fast healthy. I hope you are not sad about this incident. Of course I'm sad, honey. As Papa I experienced that our future son must be gone, before he was born. He will be an angel in heaven. You are healthy soon. You said no, when your day is clouded, I will always be there for you. We all live together. You are always strong, my dear. I Love U So Much" he said softly while continuing to hold his wife's hand.