Sharing Love: Winning Without Love
Family Mirror
The sky was still so bright when Radit, Khaira, and also Arsyila came home from the office and returned home. This time drizzle accompanied their journey. Along the way, Khaira seems to see more drizzling spots that feel so cool to him.
"You like drizzling, honey?" ask Radit while driving his car.
Khaira turned her face and smiled at her husband. "Like .. drizzle sweet yes Mas." he said as he looked again at the streets of the capital that began to get wet, trees bathed in rain water exhaled the wind that was so fresh.
"You know what the difference is between a drizzle and you, honey?" ask Radit suddenly.
Khaira shook her head. "No. .. don't know. What's the difference, Mas?" tanya turned her head until now she can look at her husband.
"If the drizzle falls down, if you fall into my heart." Apparently her husband just put up a dreadlocks fashion to his wife.
Feeling tempted with a change of heart, Khaira laughed until her face reddened. "Isshhhc ... It's a real mess." said Khaira while shaking her head.
"Tuh Arsyila, Papa you are very good at dreadlocks" Khaira told Arsyila who had seen her father who was driving his car.
"Papa's just a dreadlocks to Mama, Darling ... Your mother made Papa opium taste. There is no cure for that mom. Steady on the soul. A day if the mama's non-gombalin it feels like there is less" he said while giving one thumb to his wife and child.
Khaira chuckled amusedly at the words of her husband. "You are there, Mas .. cook if a day does not gombalin just taste something less. It's too much...."
Not long after, the three of them had arrived home. Because Arsyila joined her Papa to the office, so this afternoon the little baby still has not taken a bath. Once in the room, Khaira immediately bathed her daughter. Change all the clothes and diapers, then hand it to her husband who had taken a bath first.
"Mas, nitip Arsyila first yes .. I want to take a shower." She told her husband that it was his turn to take a bath.
The young papa was always happy to share the role of nurturing Arsyila. Even Radit actually enjoyed the moment when he took care of Arsyila. Until 20 minutes passed, Khaira had just come out of the bathroom. While her husband's netra appeared to highlight his wife who had just come out of the bathroom with half-wet hair.
Khaira smiled at her husband and son. "Not fussy, is it?" ask the husband.
"Relax Honey .. If it's fussy, I can calm it down. I can count on you. Papa will always keep Arsyila in check." he said confidently.
"You are indeed the best Kok Mas .. half a day notgasuh Arsyila has graduated, if at home also change. The husband if you want to share the role of parenting is very good because the children also learn leadership from his father. The leadership figure in the family is a Papa" he said.
Because it is true that the pattern of parenting in the house is very important. The child will reflect on his parents. Therefore, parents are required to be a good role model for children. Children will learn gentleness from the figure of his mother, and learn leadership and assertiveness from the figure of his father. While Radit and Khaira who incidentally is a new couple, indeed they want to be a full mirror for Arsyila.
"Although as parents we are not perfect, must learn, must improve here and there, but we try to be a good figure of Mama and Papa for Syila ya Mas...." khaira said as she rubbed Arsyila's head.
Radit agreed. "Right Honey .. let alone me with all my mistakes in the past, I hope Arsyila can see me as a good Papa figure for her."
Khaira stretched out her hand to hold her husband's hand. "Of course you're a good Papa to Arsyila, Mas. You're her first love. Surely Arsyila reflects a lot of things from you" she said to calm her husband.
Hearing his wife's soft and soothing words, Radit smiled. His heart was warm during his life with Khaira. His wife was truly a kind, patient, compassionate, and wise woman. Although sometimes his wife looks whiny, but Khaira is a strong figure.
"You're so good Darling .. I hope Arsyila as an adult will be proud to have a Papa like me. After having that child, I feel like I want to be the best, try my best for Arsyila. I love Arsyila. I want her to grow up and be proud to be my daughter."
It is undeniable that what Radit is saying now is also the dream of all parents. They want the child they raised with all their heart, someday to be a successful person and they are proud of their parents.
"Definitely Mas .. surely Arsyila is very proud to have your Papa. Not only Arsyila, I'm proud to have you as my husband." this time Khaira said honestly. Besides her wanting to encourage her husband, it is undeniable that Khaira is proud to have Radit as her husband.
"Sama Darling .. I'm proud to have you in my life. Arsyila is broken, let's sleep first, baby. Abis it's Quality Time's turn for both of us. Let me sleep with Arsyila" he said, who began trying to put Arsyila to sleep by reading children's fairy tales.
Khaira just smiled. "Are you sure you can sleep with Arsyila? Do you want to drink or eat something? I can make it rain outside. How do you know I want a snack."
Khaira offered her husband food and drink to accompany the two on the rainy night.
"Cokelat warm just darling .. it looks good rain-drinking warm chocolate. It's better because you make it, don't forget to add a spoonful of love dear, let's feel more steady." message to the wife.
Khaira nodded her head. "Yes, I made you some warm chocolate. Not just a spoonful, I love it if necessary, Mas ... Are you sure Papa is sleeping with Arsyila?" she giggled with laughter at the additional request from her husband to add a spoonful of love to her warm chocolate.
Radit quickly nodded his head. "Yakin .. there Mama came out first. Let Papa sleepurin the Princess Papa first."
Eventually Khaira opts out of the room, allowing her husband to put Arsyila to sleep. While Khaira chose to go down to the kitchen, cooking water to make hot chocolate, her husband's favorite drink. Enjoying a warm drink together while chatting together and enjoying the rain that falls on this night seems to be fun.