Sharing Love: Winning Without Love
Seasons 2 - A Simple But Meaningful Moment Network
A week after giving birth, Khaira began to adapt how to care for two children with different needs. Arsyilla is certainly more active and sometimes a lot of want. While Arshaka is still a baby and arguably time is still a lot to sleep. It's just that when Arshaka sleeps, Khaira will use that time to accompany Arsyilla to play or read a book. All that, he did so that Arsyilla did not feel that her mother was now only focusing on her sister, and ignored her. For this reason, Khaira tries to be fair, to be a mother who can accommodate the needs of her children.
Similarly to Radit, during a week at home for taking time off, the man also shared the task with Khaira. If, Khaira would bathe Arshaka with warm water, Radit would prepare the warm water. If Khaira looks tired, then he will invite Arsyilla to play. Fill each other.
“Mumpung Shaka sleep, you also sleep Dear.” Radit said that night.
It is not denied that in the first 40 days of a baby's life, their lifestyle will still follow the pattern when still in the womb of the mother. Most babies wake up in the middle of the night. Therefore, Radit also reminded his wife to sleep faster. So that at night Shaka wakes up and asks ASI, Khaira is not too tired.
“Before Mas .. 15 minutes more.” sahut Khaira who apparently still make negotiations to be able to extend the time 15 minutes more.
“Ya already .. 15 minutes only yes. This Abis you should sleep. Bobok. Tired you.” said the man with so much attention.
After that Radit shuffled and then the man took his wife's head to be on his chest. “Why, want a story?” ask his wife that.
Indeed, sometimes when Arshaka sleeps, at night like this Radit will ask his wife what Khaira wants to tell? For he will listen faithfully to every story of his wife.
“Gak .. I just sometimes still sad if I remember how Shaka was born and not crying. It feels really tight.” Khaira spoke and it turned out that the woman was experiencing Post Pastrum, there was sadness after giving birth to Arshaka, especially when the son was born and did not cry at all.
Radit also belatedly stroked his wife's hair, “All has become a path from God, Dear .. We are still lucky because Shaka is safe and healthy. Hopefully in the future, he is always healthy and strong.”
“Amin.” Khaira assures both speech and prayer to Arshaka.
“But yes Mas, if there is no you by my side who accompany me through everything, surely I have been down really.” This time Khaira spoke with a little face to look at her husband.
Radit smiled, “What I did was very simple, Darling. You are fighting until the last blood point.” he said as he rubbed his wife's arm.
“Because that's the wedding, Mas .. many simple moments that we go through together, but all those simple moments are very meaningful. Thank you.” said Khaira who again thanked her with her husband.
Yes, indeed that is a wedding, not only coupled with a wow and special moment. Precisely simple moments that are strung together so beautifully can give a meaning that is so deep. Just a small example, when Khaira is pumping ASI, if Arshaka cries, Radit will be deft to hold the baby first. If Arsyilla sometimes sulks, Radit can also take turns to babysit Arsyilla. It was all very simple, like an ordinary day-to-day life. However, it is precisely in everyday life and simplicity that knit the rope of love that is meaningful for both of them.
Responding to Khaira's words, Radit nodded, “Even if the moment is simple, but special because I live it with you. The woman who changed me so that I could be like this. The woman who continues to be a great wife, companion, and also a great Mama for Arsyilla and Arshaka.” he replied.
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The next day became the first day for Radit to return to the office. Apparently the man chose to get up early and started preparing warm water for Arshaka's bath. Also for the drinking water and cakes that had been bought last night, he took them to Khaira's room. Wishing his wife, no need to labor down to the kitchen to take what she needs.
“Welcome to work Papa .. Bye ..” say Khaira and Arsyilla together. Not to forget, they also waved their hands to the Papa who came out of the door of the house and was about to enter the car.
Radit smiled, before leaving for the office, the man kissed his wife and children first. “Papa work first yes .. Syilla later help Mama also yes. Sweet Shaka yes, and Mama do not forget to rest.” message the man to his wife and child.
“Oke Papa .. We Love U, Papa.” Sahut Khaira who apparently also followed by Arsyilla.
What a beautiful morning. The warmth and smiles of his wife and children really become a new spirit for Radit to return to work after a week of taking a leave at home.
“If anything, contact me yes Darling .. I Love U.” message Radit to Khaira.
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In the afternoon, it was also a beautiful moment for Radit. How not, now there are new family members who welcome him after work. The baby was still in the stomach of his mother, and now baby Arshaka was in Khaira's arms and welcomed him home from the office.
“Welcome Home, Papa ..” greet Khaira and Arsyilla so compact.
“Halo Mama, Sister Syilla, and baby Shaka ..” Radit said with a big smile.
Afterwards, Radit as usual went straight to the bathroom first. If he is completely clean, then he will approach his wife and children.
“So all day Brother Syilla why?” tanya Radit who was approaching Arsyilla who was playing in the family room.
“Syilla played Pa... Same earlier Syilla accompanied Mama pumping, Pa. Can ASI a lot.” the story so adorable.
“Oh yes ... wow, Brother Syilla became a great Brother yes can accompany Mama pumping.” said Radit who praised his son for wanting to accompany Mama pumping.
“Baby Shaka all day fussy not Ma?” now it was Radit's turn to ask his wife that.
Khaira shook her head, “Nggak ... baby Shaka pinter kok Pa.” he replied by handing the baby into her husband's team.
Paying attention to each other, the warmth of the family can indeed be assembled from a variety of simple moments. Because with attention and affection, the bond of family love will be stronger and more colorful.