Sharing Love: Winning Without Love
The Negotiation of Parents
"If you can't forgive Radit, I'm very familiar with Besan. No matter how guilty Radit is, and I as a parent will not cover up his mistake" Wibi's father said wisely. He breathed back his breath. "However, the problem of the household that is not resolved protracted also makes Radit feel guilty to Khaira until finally he experienced stress like now. Still thankful enough for not leading to depression."
Ammar's father knew that even his best friend was wise and he did not cover up his son's mistakes. Whatever is wrong, it is still wrong. And, Wibi's father also agreed that Radit's actions were wrong.
"Yes, I know. But maybe my son too because of being hurt too long finally Khaira became indifferent to Radit. Though I know, Khaira is a sensitive child and her heart is soft. I was more sad, because I had no idea the household was both troubled since the beginning of the marriage. I also do not know if my son went abroad without saying goodbye to his own husband" said Ammar's father.
"Women when they're hurt can do anything, Dad. Maybe she felt that she was not expected by her own husband, so Khaira chose to leave without a message to Radit" said Mother Dyah.
"True Jeng, because we will put our hearts and feelings first. Khaira is also very likely to think like that. But, for example we are in the position of Khaira maybe we will do the same thing." said Mother Ranti.
"So now how, we as parents certainly should not impose our will on our children. I've asked Radit to release Khaira, but he won't. He even threatened to die if separated from Khaira. While I'm not sure Khaira there will forgive Radit," Wibi's father said, massaging his temple.
"But Radit and Khaira are very far apart. Their problems need to be solved immediately. If it's not resolved to wait until the next 2 years, Radit could be more depressed here," now it's Ammar's father's turn to speak.
"Try later if Radit has realized we just ask what he wants, what steps he wants to take. We as parents try to listen first, without suppressing our will. Give our ears to hear what the child wants and plans" Wibi's father said.
In the VIP treatment room, Radit was still weakly sprawled on top of the gurney. While their parents certainly discuss how the future of their two children. Everyone was on guard last night, finally the morning Radit had come to his senses.
"Dad ... Mother ..." the first word she said when she was conscious.
"You're sober, Dit? How's body?" said Bunda Ranti who immediately approached Radit's gurney.
"Already Mother, Radit is just lemes Mother."
"Rest first, you need to recover. This is breakfast, Mother of bribes."
"Radit is not hungry Mother," he said lethargic.
"Father of Ammar and Mother of Dyah, once again forgive Radit. Don't separate Radit from Khaira. Radit wants to suck up Khaira, Dad... Radit has to solve this."
Ammar's father and Bunda Dyah only stared concerned about the situation of his daughter-in-law who was still weak, but insisted on seeing Khaira.
"Think about your health first, Dit. You need to be healthy, you need to recover. Do not think much, said your doctor exposed to stress that can trigger the occurrence of depression. So not only should your body be healthy, your heart and mind should be calm. Your soul must be healthy too." Ammar's father advised Radit a lot.
Deep in the depths of his heart it was certain that Father Ammar and Mother Dyah were so disappointed with Radit, but no matter how angry the parents were to his son, he was, they will not bear when their children are in pain and even mentally depressed. For Father Ammar and Mother Dyah, Radit is not only a daughter-in-law, they have considered Radit like his own son, they also love Radit since the child was a child.
"You have to eat, if you want healthy. It is impossible if your condition is weak like this to nyusulin Khaira. Especially towards the end of the year, in England begins the winter," Mother Ranti sneered near Radit. "Come, now eat first. Mommy bribe."
Hearing the words of Mother Ranti has a point, so Radit wants to eat. One first bribe he swallowed with difficulty, the next feed he ate up the toilet without rest because of the magnitude of his desire to heal and immediately met Khaira.
"Today you still have to stay in the hospital, tomorrow you can go home," said Wibi's father who is now sitting next to Radit.
"Now all your parents are gathered here. There are us and Khaira's parents who are also your parents. Last night we said, we're not gonna ask you to get divorced. But, Father and Mother all need to hear in advance what steps you will take. If the steps you take are logical and you can be accountable to us and Khaira of course, then we will support you" Wibi's father told Radit.
"Thank you Daddy and Mommy all for not forcing Radit to divorce." Silent moment. "Radit wants to follow Khaira to Manchester, Father and Mother. Of course Radit will resign from work, but Father and Mother do not worry because so far Radit also invested some money to buy shares. Not only playing alone, Radit also uses Autobots so that he gets a definite income every month. It was enough to support both of us while abroad. Radit wants to apologize directly to Khaira, and keep Khaira there. Radit wants to atone for Radit's sins and mistakes all along."
"Then, what if Khaira doesn't forgive you?" ask Ammar's father who looked at Radit.
"Radit will try desperately, until Khaira forgives Radit, Dad. Radit wants to fight and show Radit's feelings and earnestness to Khaira" he said with all his heart.
"All right then. Heal yourself first. Must be completely recovered, not only your stomach acid is healed, psychologically and mentally you also have to heal. Do not let the stress you experience turn into depression because when the depression comes, it will be more difficult to cure. Even you have to go to a psychologist to cure the pressure and mental disorders that you experience." Ammar's father once again spoke to Radit.
"Yes Dad, Radit will try to recover and recover. But psychically, Radit doesn't know how to heal, Dad. Maybe Radit really only recovered when Khaira had forgiven Radit" he said, bowing languidly before his parents and in-laws.