Sharing Love: Winning Without Love
Season 2 - Consultation with Husband
After teaching for about half a day, he spent time on campus. The next night after putting Arsyilla to sleep, Khaira then took a seat at her husband's side. The woman then looked at her husband's face for a moment before starting to speak, more precisely because her husband sometimes looks like a mentor to Khaira. Maybe because the difference in age of 4 years makes her husband often used as a place to consult, but Radit also as a man can think with his brain more logically, and more, khaira uses her heart and feelings. Therefore, regarding her work Khaira did not hesitate to consult with her husband.
“Mas, I want a story to be allowed,” he said he wanted to start the story.
One nod given by her husband is enough to signal that Khaira will start her story, “tadi, right after teaching the 1st grade student, I was called Head Prodi. I was asked to guide and carry out a new task as Field Practice Advisor and Script Instructor Lecturer, said Head Prodi anyway, I qualified to carry out these two tasks.” Khaira told her husband slowly.
While Radit seems to listen to his wife's story slowly, not to interrupt, but he listens to Khaira's story first. Letting his wife tell him the story until the end, then he will begin to give his advice and advice to his wife.
Looking at her silent husband, Khaira seemed to let out a slow sigh, she then resumed her story, “I have not decided anything yet Kok Mas. I have also told the Chief Prodi that I want to talk to my husband first, especially now that I am pregnant. Of course, your advice would be best for me. Whatever your advice, I'll come with.”
“You yourself want How Darling?” Ask his wife.
Khaira seemed silent and thought for a moment about her will, the woman then re-opened her voice, “ya, if for me this is a good improvement for my teaching career anyway Mas ... because when else is believed to be a Field Practice Advisor and Script Teacher Lecturer. At that college, I was classified as young, but it was trusted for other tasks. Of course I'm happy. However, from the beginning I have said, that I work only to channel my hobby of teaching. God willing, if for the material, I'll just ask you.”
As if calm, Radit laughed, “you could have, the proof is that you rarely ask me. Everything I love is just you can save. Wear it Honey .. Buy what you want, eat what you like, I don't mind. I used to say, all my money is yours.”
Khaira nodded her head, “iya Mas .. later I will also wear it. Iha abis for all the needs of the house you love, the kitchen also continues to billow, what else will try? Mending me a tube to send Arsyilla and her sister to high. I want my kids to be successful and successful people later on.”
Thought Khaira was so realistic, in the future the child's school fees are very expensive. Not infrequently, had to spend deeply for the cost of children's education, therefore Khaira prefers to save and allocate the money given by her husband to the school of Arsyilla and her sister later.
Khaira then seemed to curl her breath for a moment, several times the woman scrunched her forehead as a sign she was thinking, “now I want to keep my pregnancy, Mas, I became more afraid. If I take on a new task, I can postpone it until after giving birth. I'm fine sacrificing my career for the sake of my children.”
What Khaira said is the dilemma of women today, when there is an offer to pursue a career as high as possible can be achieved, but there are also husbands and children at home who must be kept. Situations that sometimes make women who are fully working, to finally choose to sacrifice the present for investment in child development. The same thing happened to Khaira, she felt that she could still delay pursuing the opportunity after giving birth later, or in the future.
Radit looks at his wife's face deeply, looks at her and then embraces her shoulder, “you have never changed from the old darling. Even if that opportunity can lead you to your career success. I'm sure, in the future you can be a great lecturer at your college. If it were me, it would actually want you to focus first on teaching now and into your pregnancy. Later when the children are older, have started to go to school, you can fly high chasing your ideals and other desires. That's my advice darling, you mind not?”
Khaira quickly shook her head, her hands now wrapped around her husband's waist, “enggak. Family to me number one, Mas .. career can be pursued at a later time. As long as you and the children don't protest, I can pursue him calmly. Now quite like this used to be okay kok.”
“Thank You Darling .. Your sacrifice is incredible. I'm so grateful to have a wife like you, not ambitious to pursue a career, but rather prioritizing the three of us. Thanks yes..” Radit sincerely thanked his wife.
“Not that I prevent you from progressing, but take care of the baby first. She needs her Mama who is healthy and happy, so that her growth and development in your womb is also healthy and happy. I promise, when Arsyilla and her sister are starting to grow up later, I will support you always dear. You want to pursue your career can, you want to go to school again take S3 also can, anyway I will always support you,” he said in earnest.
Khaira also laughed, “seriously I can take S3 later? If possible, I want to take S3 abroad can Mas? I'll take another scholarship if I can.”
“Bby .. That means you have to be ready I paste 24 hours, because later I will continue to hold you for 24 hours like time in Manchester first, and you should not protest, you should not protest,” said the man while landing his kiss on his wife's forehead.
Discussions or simply consulting with a partner is one of the keys to knowing the opinions and advice given to the wife or vice versa, by discussing and conveying the wishes of each can be the key to always maintain household harmony. Because household harmony is built not only with warmth in the bed, but also with chatter and discussion to know the wishes of each.