Sharing Love: Winning Without Love

Sharing Love: Winning Without Love
Seasons 2 - The Dag Dig Dug!


A few days before the estimated day of birth (HPL), some nights Khaira feels restless. Sleep becomes not soundly, the waist begins to ache, breathing feels stuffy, also must be repeatedly to the bathroom to urinate. Even in the past few nights, Khaira had also felt unable to sleep. Trying to close his eyes and hope that drowsiness will come soon, in fact it is in vain, because his eyes are often closed.


Realizing his wife's anxiety, Radit several nights also woke up from his sleep and asked what his wife felt.


“Why Honey, how do you wake up at this hour? It is still early morning, said the man while rubbing his wife's waist. 


Khaira just shook her head, “It feels weird, Mas ... can't sleep. I was in the bathroom, and now I can't sleep anymore. Suddenly his drowsiness disappeared.” he replied as he rubbed his increasingly bloated stomach.


“There are no signs of labor yet, right? Should be more sensitive Honey .. anyway I will always be on standby. Want to drink water? Let me get you.” bargain now to his wife.


However, Khaira actually shook his head, “Nggak Mas .. Most drink later. Now I have been repeatedly to the bathroom kok.” he replied that indeed all night can be three to five times to the bathroom.


“Lha how to go? What can I do?” ask Radit again to Khaira. Paying more attention to his pregnant wife in the age before HPL, Radit seemed to want to share the burden with his wife.


“Gini aja already nothing kok Mas .. hopefully this abis sleepy and I can sleep.” he replied by lying back and leaning his head on the chest of her husband's field. 


Inhaling Woody's fresh and soothing scent, and also listening to her husband's heartbeat beating in unison hope to become a powerful skill to put her back to sleep.


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A few days later, Khaira prepared various teaching materials for the classes she taught, at the same time handing over various learning materials and learning tools ranging from syllabus to learning contracts to teaching assistants who will replace them during their maternity leave for three months later. Sitting at a desk with a laptop on, Khaira moved her head several times to the left and to the right. If you have been sitting for a long time, the pregnant woman will also take a walk for a moment to stretch her muscles and joints, as well as the waist area that begins to hurt.


“Day Estimated Born you stay three days longer Darling ... Sister want to be born today? Give the signs to Mama yes so that Mama can call your Papa as soon as possible. If you can, the signs and waves of love Papa time is at home.” muttered Khaira.


Indeed, these few days, Khaira is restless waiting for signs of labor that also have not appeared to this day. He was waiting for the love signals his baby would send to him, so he was not anxious in case of sudden labor.


Feeling that his waist was more relaxed, Khaira then sat back down and sent all the materials and learning contracts to her teaching assistant via email. After that, Khaira intended to stand up to take her drinking water that was on the nightstand, but when she stood it seemed to feel wet at the base of her thighs.


Start Khaira walking to the bathroom, and pay attention to what fluids should come out. Feeling a seepage that came out, Khaira was quite anxious. Feeling the dag-dig-dug that afternoon. Changing her clothes, Khaira chose to wear a bandage that might help her, then she began to contact her husband.


Mas Radit's


“Mas ...” greet Khaira to her husband as soon as his call is connected.


“Iya, what's the matter Darling?” radit asked when he got the call.


“Mas, this seems to be the sembes, only I have not rasain anything. Can you go home with Mas? We are going to the Hospital now.” Khaira was still trying to talk as calmly as possible with her husband.


Trying so that her husband did not panic and could drive safely of course. Meanwhile, hearing that the possibility of Khaira's amniotic fluid has begun to seep, it is undeniable that Radit was panicking. The man immediately closed his laptop just like that and asked permission to the HRD to go home.


“Iya Darling .. patience yes. Wait for me.” replied Radit who at that time started running to take his car in the parking lot.


While at home, Khaira immediately contacted Mother Dyah to come to the house. He also told me if I felt anything wet. Khaira thought that it might be a seepage from her waters. Not waiting for a long time, Mother Dyah also came to the house.


“How is Khai, what is it feeling?” ask Mother Dyah who is not denied feeling panicked as well.


“Khaira has not felt anything yet Mother .. just had a seepage. Maybe the sembes or how, let's see Dr. Indri only, Bun.” Khaira story that is not denied he was panicked, his body began to sweat coldly. However, Khaira is still trying to calm down and hopes her husband will soon arrive from her office.


Mother Dyah also rubbed Khaira's stomach, “If you want to be born soon yes Grandma's grandson. Do not long pity your mother if you have to endure pain for too long.” the words as well as prayers from Mother Dyah.


Start Khaira crying immediately, “Thank you Mother .. sorry if all this time Khaira has a mistake yes Mommy... pray Khaira if it will give birth everything can run smoothly and safely.” said.


Mother Dyah also hugged her daughter with a lot of affection, “Mothers surely forgive Khai. Mother pray that everything is healthy and safe. If there is anything do not forget to tell Mother. Don't think about Arsyilla, focus first on your delivery. Syilla is safe with Mommy here.” 


Khaira was relieved, because in the crucial moments, there were parents and also her in-laws who could be relied upon to look after Arsyilla. What Mother Dyah said was right, now she must focus more and prioritize her delivery first. Although her heart also misses Arsyilla very much, but she has to struggle to give birth to the baby boy.


“Iya Mommy .. thank you. Khaira will focus on this birth first because Khaira believes that Mother and Her Eye will be able to take care and nurture Syilla.” said by nodding.


Eventually, Khaira began to feel pain in her lower abdomen and waist area. Pain, soreness, even seemed hot mixed into one. Nevertheless, Khaira calms himself by doing relaxation techniques that take as much oxygen with the nose, then take it out slowly with his mouth. 


“Sabar ya Adik, wait for Papa first.” muttered Khaira in heart and hoped that her husband would arrive soon and could drive her to the Hospital.