Sharing Love: Winning Without Love
Wedding Day
It did not feel like a week had passed, and now Ammar's Father's house has been decorated in such a way with white roses which are Khaira's favorite flowers, combined with white tulips, fresh foliage, and fresh leaves, the lights are beautiful, making Rustic-style decorations in the family home of Ammar's father look very beautiful.
In Khaira's room, the girl is being made up with the makeup of the bride of Java, the bride, with paes (bends on the forehead to the bridal haircut made from a pidih or a type of black candle) and jasmine flower arrangements dangle beautifully on the side of his head. With a little bold make up conjuring Khaira like a court princess ayu. The white kebaya that sticks beautifully to his body and the array that wraps beautifully around his waist to his feet, really makes Khaira look perfect.
While in the courtyard of the house that has been decorated in such a way that the groom has arrived using beskap (the typical Javanese groom's clothes) in white and rags, white, not to forget a blangkon perched beautifully on the head of a handsome, white-faced man, his pointed nose, and his tall stature with broad shoulders. Made some invited guests praise the beautiful Groom.
The groom has sat in front of the ruler, and is ready to carry out the Qobul wedding, while the bride is still in the room, following the path of Ijab Qobul from television broadcasts connected to television in his room.
Penghulu and Ammar's father had sat before the man who was familiarly called Radit. And now, the Ijab procession will begin.
Ammar's father shook Radit's hand and began the procession of Ijab Qobul.
"I marry you, I marry you with your betrothed My daughter Khaira Amaira bint Ammar Sasongko with a dowry a set of prayer tools and cash of 200 million rupiah paid in cash."
"I accepted the marriage and marriage of Khaira Amaira bint Ammar Sasongko with the dowry in cash." Radit uttered his Ijab Qobul in one breath, until the ruler and the marriage witness said.
"Well!"
In his room Khaira shed tears, he really did not expect it would be this soon to release his bachelor. Khaira's friend in college Metta also hair and accompany him, watching the happy moment and the day of his best friend.
"Congratulations, Khai, you're a wife now. May SaMaWa always be Khai..." Metta said with sincerity on her face. The girl who was friendly with Khaira since the time of ospek new students also shed tears, not expecting her best friend will get married so soon.
"Amin, thank you for your prayers Ta..." Khaira replied, and she was asked to stand up to meet her husband in front.
After Ijab Qobul, the bride is escorted out of her room and will be reunited with the groom. The host recited each arrangement of the show as gamelan music hummed along Khaira's journey to the temple where Radit was already standing.
The two brides who previously did not know each other were met, there was no twinkle of happiness on the faces of both. Radit looked at Khaira with his sharp eyes, while Khaira only lowered her eyes and head, his eyes reluctant to look at her handsome and handsome husband.
After the bride and groom have been in the wedding ceremony, the event continues with the embedding of the wedding ring on the finger of the bride's hand. Radit took the diamond-studded ring and placed it on Khaira's ring finger. After that, Khaira's turn to put a ring on Radit's ring finger, she kissed her husband's hand as a sign that a wife would submit to her husband, as the Lord commanded that a wife should submit to her husband because of the great right of husband to wife. Meanwhile, Radit kissed Khaira's forehead as a sign of affection from husband to wife.
Khaira was nervous, as Radit's lips slowly landed beautifully on her forehead. As a girl who has never been in contact with any man, of course now must feel a kiss even if only on the forehead makes Khaira feel nervous. His palm suddenly cold, because of the nervous and groggy he felt. Moreover, Radit kissed his wife's forehead in a long duration, as well as the camera captured the sweet moment of his second marriage in a camera lens shot. Without notice, tears fell in the corner of Khaira's eyes. I don't know what she's feeling right now, but those tears are dripping by themselves.
After the ring exchange procession, the bride and groom continue the condolences to both parents as a sign of devotion and respect given to the bride and groom as a form of gratitude and gratitude for giving guidance and affection from birth until finally his children got married. Khaira took the position of prostration and asked for the blessing of Father Ammar and Mother Dyah.
"Amen. Father and Mother's Son... We pray that Khaira be a good wife, keep the good name of the husband, your marriage sakinah, mawadah, and wa rahmah till janah ya Darling."
Both of Khaira's parents were crying to give their blessing while embracing Khaira, the child they raised has now become someone else's wife, feeling sad and happy to become one.
After that, it was Radit's turn to ask for blessings to Ammar's father and Mother Dyah.
"Father and Mother, please pray blessing for our marriage."
Ammar's father immediately welcomed his son-in-law in his arms.
"Father and Mother must and will always pray for the happiness of both of you. Father entrust only father's son, if Khaira is still not pleased in acting please be guided, love him as we his parents love him, if Khaira makes a mistake please forgive and be guided as best as possible." Said Ammar's father while hugging his daughter-in-law tightly.
"Yes Dad... Mother..."
After sungkeman with Father Amar and Mother Dyah, the second turn of the bride to do the condolences to both parents Radit, Father Wibisono and Mother Ranti.
Khaira prostrated herself to kiss the hands of her two in-laws. "Dad... Mother..." Just as he mentioned the nickname, both of Radit's parents had embraced Khaira with warm hugs.
"Khaira, we're your parents too, son. Do not regard us as others, we are like the Father of Ammar and Mother of Dyah. We love you as much as we love Radit." Said Father Wibi and Mother Ranti with soft words to make Khaira cry, her heart can feel how the affection of Father Wibi and Mother Ranti.
"Don't cry, honey. We exist for you. Welcome to the Wibisono family." Said Wibi's father while kissing the forehead of his son-in-law. Khaira nodded her head while still shedding her tears.
Now it's Radit's turn to ask for the blessing of his parents, "Dad... The Mother... Please pray for both of us." He spoke briefly while kissing the hands of Father and Mother.
"Yes son, the prayers of Father and Mother are always for the two of you. Learn to be a good husband, son. Learn to accept and love your wife, don't hurt her heart."
The blue atmosphere in the procession of sungkeman has ended, the event continued with photos with family and invited guests present.
In his heart Khaira only pleads that his marriage to this foreign man will go well, in the pleasure of Allah, and he will learn to live the destiny that God has given him.