The Love of Habib
Chapters 20.5
"Your prayers are very kind, but think about how Habib Thalib's first wife will feel? At least have a little conscience, and think if you are in the position of the woman. I don't want to be a hypocrite that Islam does justify marrying many women, but as a woman also try to think about how the first woman feels if you want to enter her household. All women in this world certainly do not want to see their husbands with other women let alone to make out in one bed, it must be so painful. But are you here so easy to pray to God to be second, third, or fourth? Really, I think you are a cruel woman. May Allah keep the habib of Thalib away from women like you." Dira, who had been listening to their conversation, finally spoke up and released the feeling of distress in the heart.
What is it about marrying one wife?
Is it not better in Islam than marrying many wives, but it cannot be just physically and mentally?
Hey, nothing can be fair in this world as hard as man tries because justice only God has. So from rather than self-destruct to excessive lust then why not just one?
That trust is already huge, you know. With just one wife a husband has a lot of exams in his household. And with this trust also household life can be not too smooth. Then why add another woman in the household ark?
It would be great if all wives were peaceful and did not harbor hatred for each of the rivals of love, did not drop each other's children born from rival women of love, he said, and do not love each other for the love of a husband who is more inclined to any woman. Look, how hard this wedding ordeal is when it comes to having more than one.
And besides, the average person in this age marries many women without following the conditions they should.
"Dir, what are you talking about? Our religious science is still shallow in this business so just be quiet even though we do not agree!" Gisel pulled Dira's arm irritated because what he said had attracted a lot of santriwati attention up front.
Obviously this opinion raises many pros and cons among all of them. Some are supportive and some are not supportive. This is a very reasonable thing.
Dira snatches dislikes, what is said is true. And she also hates marriage so much that it is not enough to have one queen in it.
"Let's go." Aish pulled Dira's hand and Gisel left before listening to the comments of the santriwati.
He pulled the two of them to follow where Habib Thalib and the woman had gone.
"Next time do not have to say anything if you do not want to be pounded with them!" On the road Gisel still patronize Dira to learn to close his mouth and not invite the anger of many people like that.
"I don't like their thinking. Is it that easy to ruin someone else's home relationships? Does a fellow woman have no sympathy in her heart?" She said as she thought she had been abandoned by her parents.
To this day neither Papa nor Mama came to visit him. Even to clarify what Dira heard that day alone they seemed very reluctant to come. Every time he thought about it his heart immediately throbbed pain.
"A selfish woman will have no sympathy in her heart. This is the most valid answer. Look guys, I'm not saying that you should leave if you meet this situation in your household, but if you really have a situation in your household and you cannot afford to live a household that presents other women in it, then just give up. God is not angry that you let go of the marriage. Instead of inflicting liver disease and being a hateful person, it's okay to leave the marriage. You guys have to remember this." After a long silence on the topic, Aish will finally speak.
His mother was also a woman who was married in her own marriage. And from the fall of Mama depression Aish imagined that such a marriage was very dangerous, not only physically hurting but also very dangerous inner self.
"I agree, uh, habib Thalib tuh." Gisel directly flipped Aish's shoulders to look in the direction he was pointing.
Habib Khalid walked towards Umi's house while laughing with the woman. I don't know what the woman said, but every time she spoke, Thalib would laugh. In addition, the carry bag carried by the woman has now changed hands to the habib Thalib. The woman carried nothing in her hands.
This friend liked the habib so much that he was willing to make massive changes to himself. And all those changes he made were only for the habib.
"Let's go back." Aish smiled bitterly.
"You don't want to meet Habib Thalib first? Who knows, this is just a misunderstanding." If you don't want your best friend to be disappointed.
Aish shook her head.
"He's tired. If it's time to meet again." In reality, Aish immediately looked down on the woman and she was also ashamed of herself who was not as great as the woman.
"alright. If you meet, you'll meet too." Gisel tried to understand the feelings of his best friend who was not in the mood.
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"Aira, are you going home?" Fani came to greet with the items in her hands.
He will also return to his home.
Aira nodded not a sweet smile on the face.
"Make the phone yesterday. He said I should go home because the people of the house miss me." Aira replied in a good mood.
He's very satisfied. On the phone call yesterday, none of the house people asked about Aish. They don't care if Aish comes home or not because everyone has no hope for Aish.
"Then what about your sister?"
Aira shrugged her weak shoulders, "She was still angry and would not go home."
"Ohhh... By the way today is very much alive in the boarding house. I didn't expect Habib Thalib to return to the boarding house after a month of disappearing without news." Fani said in a helpless tone.
If he does not go home then he can see the habib, how good would it be. But he had to go home because his parents had asked for it.
Aira's hand that was folding her clothes instantly froze. He set Fani with wide eyes in shock, "Habib Thalib has come home?" His eyes immediately shone brightly.