The Colorful Work World
Ch. 157 Seli

"Mas, you have a boyfriend yet? "

"Huh? " I'm surprised mom suddenly asked like that.

Indeed, at the age of me who has grown up, no wonder that parents are starting to be curious about my romantic life. They want to have a grandchild soon. Still, this is beyond my expectations. They rarely ask me about such things.

Unfortunately, I was born until I was 20 years old. I've never felt what it's called dating. There was one or two girls that I assessed and then I shot with my sincere feelings. But it all ended up failing.

I remember the last time I shot a girl in 2nd grade High School, which ended in failure. After High School, I only liked a few girls but nothing I shot at all. In college, I didn't have any romantic dramas like this at all. Until now when I entered the world of work, absolutely no romance story happened.

That's what makes my ability to communicate with the opposite sex not too good. That's why I was a little surprised because suddenly mother asked this. Somewhat nervous too because at this time still afraid to take the relationship seriously.

"No ma'am yet, I'm single. "

"Let's find the mas. Keep getting married. You want to nimang grandson" said the Father who arrived to enter our chat

"Then, cariin dong mah"

If you want to hold a grandchild is a parent. At the very least, they should also take on the role of dong. It's good, if they also take the time to find a woman who would be suitable for me. So the process of finding my soul mate was a little helped.

"Yes mas, mamah cariin nih" Challenged my mother

"Yes, it's boongan time"

At first I thought the time you found a girl would be long enough. But it turned out to be faster than I thought.

"Nih mas, the candidate you found" My mother showed me a picture of a woman.

In the photo there is a beautiful and white veiled woman. The body is also skinny and nice just like a model. If in terms of physical, I have matched this one girl. Just find out what his attitude is like and whether he is interested or not with me.

"She's Seli, my friend's son. Now just graduated college and working. Her mother is also looking for a daughter-in-law. "

I started to listen to a lot of information about this woman. If mom has given me the green light, the rest of me just how to make Seli fall for me.

"By deh bu, just set when to meet ya. During the weekend gpp. " I answered my mother.

Hearing my answer, he became excited and finally determined the time and place of our meeting later. I asked on the weekend because at this point, I already have a job and could not meet on weekdays.

Day after day passed, finally the time to meet with Seli had arrived. I felt anxious and excited at the same time. Hopefully, the girl I will meet this time is in accordance with the photo Lamagram. Already no stranger to stories about accounts whose photos are prettier than the original. Because they use filters that make the photo better than the original.

We both went to the meeting place by car. Mall is a place that we set as a location we will meet. Suitable for gathering and discussing important and casual things. After arriving at the mall, we got out of the car and looked for a suitable gathering place.

"Where are you here? All of us eat. "

"By mah, come on in. "

We both entered into a restaurant that had a meatball menu as its mainstay. It just so happened that we came first from Seli and his mother so we had to wait for them to come first.

Reading material about pdkt as much as anything, free if not practice. Therefore I had to learn a lot about communication and practice with many women. Unfortunately, I don't have a girlfriend to practice with. So that you can only meet directly with Seli and prepare as many pdkt theories as possible. But because this event is quite sudden, I still have not learned much about PDKT science.

While we were eating, Seli and his mother finally came. They saw us from a distance and waved at us.

"Eh jeng, it's coming. Meet my son, Seli"

“Known ma'am, I'm Seli.”

“Yes, meet this Ray. My son's. Come jeng please sit,”

“Halo, I'm Ray. Greetings” I said with a nervous tone.

My mother's friend introduced her son to me. We looked at each other, then we shook hands. After the introduction, we started sitting at the same table.

Both of our mothers were leading the conversation, and Seli and I took on more passive roles. Naturally, because I still don't know what topic of conversation I deserve to get out. Besides, I'm also embarrassed to talk to my parents.

One by one the chatter popped up, me and Seli just came along occasionally. No. gabe. There were a lot of personal conversations that we both had. Our discussion was alive when we talked about the streets. Because I happened to see him post about it in Lamagram. This conversation was exciting but when the material ran out, we were silent again.

At the end of the day, our conversation time will be over.

"Well, it's high hours. Permission to go home first. Later news. "

"Ok, see you later. "

After we separated, I breathed with relief. My anxiety also disappeared after this meeting was over. The thing I have to do after this is establish further contact with him through DM Lamagram. This was also mentioned during our conversation.

I saw that he was surprised and gave off a slightly disgusted expression when I found out that I was following him. But he is not a follback. I also often love and sometimes comment on his post or story. This relationship will not continue.

My mother and I went home after our business was over. The first meeting is over, is my next move to get close to Seli? Confused, I asked for advice from another friend of mine.

"Keep bro send him a message. If he doesn't bales. It means he's most likely not interested in you. " Say one of my friends as we gather.

With that one piece of advice, I started to make contact with Seli regularly, of course, while also learning about the PDKT sciences. But time after time passed, I felt Seli was not interested in me.

He never started contact first, then rarely replied to the messages I sent. It was obvious that he did not seem interested in a further relationship. But the thing that convinced me the most about this was the information from my mother.

"He said Seli still wants to find work and still does not want to have a further relationship. "

Hearing this, I immediately became very sad. This answer is very different from the information at the beginning which he said Seli was looking for a prospective companion. There are several possibilities, between him changing his mind, or this is just a subtle rejection.

This incident made the first pdkt fail completely. One girl has not been a match, will the next girl who comes in my life have a different ending? Hope so.

But I didn't give up, I'm sure a soul mate has already arranged it. How we upgrade ourselves to welcome the best soul mate God has prepared.

*Connected*