An Overdose of Love
The Correct Funeral
The dry land had been trampled by the steps of everyone who accompanied Adrian's funeral. Didn't expect that a rival who had been a good friend, would leave this world so soon.
Because of the inevitable blood loss. The circulatory system may have difficulty working properly. This results in a lack of oxygen to important organs such as the heart and brain.
When the body loses one-fifth or more of its blood, a condition known as hypovolemic or hemorrhagic shock occurs. This causes a number of unpleasant symptoms. The blood will stop circulating to the skin, making it pale, cold, and moist. The heart will work faster in an effort to draw blood and oxygen. This will make a person feel thirsty and sick.
What needs to be considered is that the effects on each person can vary greatly. It depends on how much blood you lose, how fast you lose blood and which parts of your body are injured. Puncture wounds in large arteries or veins will cause blood loss very quickly. In just 3 to 4 minutes, the body can lose 40 percent of blood volume. If you lose more than that, it is considered fatal.
That's what happened to Adrian. Maybe because many run out of blood and late to bring to the hospital, making his life can no longer be helped.
It is not hearty to see Karin continue to shed tears. Several times he was unconscious, and when he woke up he could not stop crying, so some people were forced to calm him gently so that there was no acute shock again.
When accompanying the corpse to the funeral, it should be done with solemnity and solemnity not interspersed with joking.
As the last day for family, relatives, neighbors, and friends accompanied the body to its final resting place. In addition to maintaining worldly speech that is less important, it is better to multiply the Prophet's prayers and think about death.
The stretcher containing Andrian's body, now I also follow him. There were many faces of sad people, maybe many people who loved Adrian very much, so many mourners who came to the house full of guests who wanted to see his body last time.
Mourners and mourners are not encouraged to sit down before the bodies are removed from their carriers. Adab next, read the greeting as taught by the Prophet SAW :
ASSALAMU ALAIKUM YA AHLAD DIYAR MINAL MUKMININ WA MUSLIMIN,WA INSYA ALLAHU BIKUM LA HIQUN, NASALULLAHI LANA WALAKUMUL 'AFYAH.
It means: "May salvation be poured out on you, O sepulcher, from the (classes) of the believers and the Muslims. We God willing will follow you, I ask for salvation for you and us."
Preparing the Hole of the Grave :
The procedure for burying the body certainly begins with preparing the grave. Some important things to consider in making the grave according to Islamic law are as follows :
The Hole Should be Deep
According to Islamic teachings, the depth of the grave is as high as the person standing inside with his hands waving upwards. Then the width with the size of one dzira or one cubit more one inch, equivalent to 50 centimeters.
Dig a hole in the ground that is strong and deep so that when the corpse begins to rot, the smell of the body is not smelled by the scavenger animals. And safe from landslides due to rain.
Hole Shape
The procedure for burying the body by paying attention to the shape of the grave hole. Make enough length for the corpse, of course exceeding his height.
When the ground is hard, it is dedicated to making burrows in the grave. A burrow is a hole made in the wall of the tomb next to the Qibla, the size of which is enough to put the body.
The body was placed in the hole, then closed using flat stones. Then take care of the ground. In Indonesia, most people use wooden boards instead of flat stones, so that the ground does not collapse on the corpse.
Meanwhile, if the soil is loose, it is dedicated to make a kind of hole again at the bottom of the grave with the size of can accommodate the body. The body is placed in the hole, then the top is covered with flat stone or wooden board, then diurug with soil.
Burying in a Muslim Cemetery
It would be nice if a dead season, buried in a special Muslim cemetery. If there is none, as well as the time to bury the body that must be done immediately is considered no problem. During the burial process is still in accordance with Islamic law.
Regarding the time to bury the corpse should also be considered, because it can have an impact on the funeral process and the availability of residents who help bury.
Some time that should be avoided when burying the body:
The sun rises until it rises.
The sun is in the middle.
The sun is almost setting or completely setting.
The position of the corpse in the grave hole, must be tilted to the right or facing the direction of the Qiblah. If the body is not faced towards the Qibla but has already diurug soil, then it must dig again and face the body towards the qibla.
After the body is placed slowly at the bottom of the hole, it is used to untie the rope, starting from the head and opening the cloth, cheeks and toes must be attached to the ground.
In Indonesia, the direction of the Qibla tends to the west. The head is always in the north. If the position of the head is on the south side, then to face it towards the qibla must tilt the body of the corpse to the left side.
Putting a Body in the Grave Hole
For the bodies of women, devoted to spread the cloth over the grave. When inserting the body into the hole, which does preferably two or three men who are closest to the family of the corpse during his life.
In addition, people who enter the body, are sought by those who when the night is not junub. How to put the body by putting the head first, then straighten the legs.
When he placed it in the grave, he read :
BISMILLAHI WA 'ALA SUNNATI RASULILLAHI SHALLALLAHU 'ALAIHI WA SALLAMA
Meaning: In the name of Allah and the religion of the Prophet" .
The procedure of burying the body reading this prayer, according to the sunnah of the Prophet as mentioned in the hadith narration of Imam Abu Dawud :
From the friend of Abdullah bin Umar, that if the Prophet put the body in the tomb, he read Bismillahi wa ala sunnati Rasulilli shallallhu 'alaihi wa sallama."
How to Bury a Compact Body According to the Sharia
Put the body on the edge of the hole or grave next to the Qibla, then put a wooden board or something with a slightly tilted position, so that the body is not directly hit by the ground.
Then on it is placed a kind of brick horizontal position to hold the soil heap, so as not to hit the corpse directly. Special conditions of loose soil as previously described.
Place the body by inserting the head of the corpse from the foot of the grave, or from a southern position if in Indonesia.
Place the body tilted to the right facing the qibla by supporting the body using stone or wooden boards, so that the body does not return to its back.
The scholars suggested to put the ground under the cheek of the corpse to the right after the shroud and all the ropes were opened, the cheeks sticking directly to the ground.
When putting the body into the grave and putting it is recommended to read the following prayer :
"BISMILLAHI WA'ALAA MILLATI ROSUULILLAAH"
It means: "In the name of Allah and the religion of Allah." (CHR. At-Tirmidhi and Abu Daud), or prayer as above.
Especially the body of a woman, it is recommended to spread the cloth over her grave when inserted into the grave. As for the male corpse is not recommended.
The bodies of women should be men who are not in a state of junub or did not have their wives the night before.
After the body is placed in the grave, it is recommended to sow the soil three times from the direction of the head of the corpse, then filled with soil.
Praying after you have finished burying the body.
Prayer After Burying the Body :
"ALLAHUMMAGHFIR LAHU WARHAMHU, WA'AAFIHI WA'FU 'ANHU, WA AKRIM NUZULAHU, WA WASSI'MADKHALAHU, WAGHSILHU BIL-MA'I WATSTSALJI WAL-BARADI, WANAQQOHI MINOR KHOTOYA KAMAAYUNAQQOTTSAUBU ABYADHU MINADANASI, WAABDILHU DAARON KHOIRON IN DAARIHI, WAABDILON IN DAARIHI, WAAHLANKHOIRON MIN AHLIHI, WAZAUJAN KHOIRON MINZAUJIHI, WAQIHI FITNATAL QOBRI WA'ADAABINNAR
It means: "O Allah, forgive him, have mercy on him, blot out and forgive his sins, glorify his place (he is heaven) and spread out his grave. Wash the faults clean as the white cloth of the dirt. Replace the house better than it was, the family better than the difficult family; and put it into heaven and keep it away from the torment of the grave and the torment of the fire of hell."
Those are some procedures to bury the body according to Islamic law that should be known, in order to carry out the sunnah of the Prophet SAW appropriately. Death can not be guessed, as a living witness to the process of taking care of the body, it would be nice to start preparing for the day ahead.
And no one can know for sure what he will do tomorrow, and no one knows where on earth he will die. Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Meticulous. (QS. Luqman :34)
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SOURCES OF DETAILS OF FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS
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Hopefully we who do not know/not really understand can learn how to eat someone's body properly and correctly.
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