Mistakes & Selfishness Behind Happiness
Chapter 24

Ibuk's story

After mom came here. My life did not improve. The struggle came after my father. Welcomed the curse of the in-law with a cold attitude, and indifferent from the father. Pregnancy does not make everything better.

I had to work from morning to evening. That's what you do from your first trimester to your third trimester. Nausea - nausea, cravings want this and that, it is not an excuse for mom indulging. What I want him to buy himself. But sometimes my mother also asked for help to buy my father, if the distance is far away I can not reach on foot, it is also sometimes you want sometimes not.

With an increasingly enlarged stomach, even limited movement, breathing sometimes feels tight. Working under the hot sun, it's not easy. But mom prefers that. Mending works from home feeling in hell.

By working mom can chat with many people. Meeting and joking with coworkers is entertainment for mom. The word ibuk it can relieve the stress of mother and her heart pain. Even if you get home, you are reminded again with various pains.

In the pregnancy of mothers who have stepped on the third trimester.

The night was very quiet, because the rain was pouring very heavy. So there is no one who passes and walks in the street even though it is just passing by.

At that time, my father had a big fight with my mother. Ibuk plans to go to his house bude to avoid the debate.all day work makes mother quite tired even though just fighting arguments.

A day of working with an enlarged stomach is already quite tiring for him. What else is added to the discussion with the father. I can't imagine what it was like for my mother at the time.

When the mother was in the yard, the father came to follow and pulled the mother's hand, because the rain and the yard so slippery pull the hand of the father was strong enough, to make the mother slammed and fell flat on her back.

I was in pain, I tried to wake up but I couldn't. Whether it was intentionally or not.

Luckily, there was a neighbor who helped my mother. Helping mothers wake up, memapah and help mothers clean themselves who have been bathed in mud.

The cold of the night as well as the rain water that poured out his body made mother shiver.

Because of the fall effect earlier, to just walk was difficult.

Fortunately, mother and baby are okay - napa. No bleeding or even miscarriage.

God's power is perfect.

The incident also has not been able to resuscitate the father. Until mother wants to give birth, she still can torture him.

Incidentally this incident is also at night with equally heavy rain.

Mother has often contractions feel like giving birth. Ibuk also asked the father to call out a child shaman who used to help people give birth there. Because the Midwife's house is very far away, be the shaman's altar as the first helper before her midwife comes.

I was just at home at the time.

Contractions are getting more frequent, but you haven't come back. Until the rupture of the father's membranes also has not come. When the mother has felt her baby will be born, the mother just directly sat on the floor justifying the position, without any pedestal. Because I did not have time to move to bed be a mother giving birth in that place. When the mother pushed the last one and the baby came out with a cry. Symbok who was already behind the house, immediately ran to the mother. And immediately lift the baby who has been born without any pedestal.symbok has not been able to clean it because the umbilical cord has not been cut waiting for his shaman to come.

Until the baby was born, my father had not come.

After waiting a few minutes his shaman just came. When from the side of the house was heard the sound of crying babies. Immediately ran to the mother who had fallen limp. Mbah shamannya then remove the placenta and cut the umbilical cord, after that new mother in moved to the bed.

Apparently he did not say mom was going to give birth, he just said he was told to massage. So yes the embah relax, wait until Isya, pray first, eat first, just go.

The relatives who had been crowded gathered there, hearing the story of the embah became furious, they immediately scolded and cursed the father alternately.

The problem is not a trivial thing. Giving birth is life at stake.

I don't know if I'm confused about Dad. How to the heart yes, indirectly have tortured ibuk. What exactly was he thinking about?

I was really sad to hear my mom's story. If I had come here sooner, it might not have happened again.

Fortunately God always protects mother, until nothing happens as mother.

Your struggle is incredible. You fought for love and marriage until you got to this point.

You're the greatest woman I have.

You can still survive in the midst of selfishness without affection.

I'm really proud to be born your daughter.

I'm proud to be the son of a woman as great as you.

I hope I can be as strong and strong as you.

Sorry at your toughest time, I wasn't next to you.

Rest assured this is not my will. But the circumstances that don't support me and the distance that separates us so I can't reach you.

From this struggle may God give you the sweetest thing you want.

May God grant the wish you have always desired.

Hopefully the existence of this hero, the father little by little can start to change.

God has given you the little whiz you want. May you keep your promise to keep your home.

My wish is simple.

I hope there will always be love and affection from now on. There is no such thing that will happen again.

To keep our family intact. Become a family that is sadinah mawadah and warohmah.

Amens.